Seeking Advice For A B'day Present For My Hubby

I ma looking for some advice, especially from women.

My name is Marsha, I'm 45, married to Ed who is turning 50 next month.

I'm thinking of giving him a birthday present I'm quite sure he would love. It involves him, me, and my best friend Debbie.

A few years ago Debbie and i became lovers by accident. We were going to concerts together, sometimes one night and sometimes 2 or 3 depending how close to home. One night after the concert we were wide awake when we got back to the hotel. I took a shower and got in my bed, then Debbie showered. We started talking about the concert and many of the hot guys we saw there. Debbie asked me how often Ed & I have sex. I said it depends, but at least 2x. She confessed that she hasn't been fucked for almost 2 months. She broke up with the guy she was seeing. I was consoling her and before I knew it she kissed me. I jumped back and she apologized. I said no apology needed and kissed her. We had incredible sex that night. We both said we didn't know each other were into women. I told I've never been with a woman. After that we fucked often while home and every night when we went away. I never told Ed.

Here's the advice I need.

I talked to Debbie and asked her if she would be interested and willing to have sex with Ed for his birthday. It would be the three of us. I know Ed would be ecstatic. While discussing it with her many questions came up. 1) would i be jealous 2) would it be one and done 3) how would we set it up

I'm sure there are more. Right now I can say I won't be jealous, but considering it's never happened I can't be sure.

If you've been in this situation your advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you in advance
Marsha

Comments

Anonymous

by Anonymous on Aug 12, 2024 at 6:29 PM

1 Jealous: there are 3 things to consider--1: when you and hubby are out, have you ever caught girls making eyes or even trying to flirt with your hubby? (how did you feel) 2: what is hubby pays more attention to Debbie, and then wants her to come back for more? 3: would you be fine if you came home and found Debbie in bed with your hubby, having some fun that was not scheduled.

admittedly, any or all of these thing may not happy or they all may. you have to decided how you will handle things.

here is what i did--we opened our marriage to include my friend. so essentially i consider i have a wife, and my husband has another wife too. all of us consider we are being faithful as long as we are with any of us 3, couples or 3some.

2 one and done -- i would not count on it. sex with others is such a turn on. your giving him permission to have another pussy, and whatever, around his cock, something he's put away since before you and he met. look at it this way--if you had a MMF 3some with one of his buddies, and the guy made you orgasm and scream more than you have ever done in your life--would you want a one and done or would you go looking for him (be honest)

3 how do you arrange it -- that is very easy. meeting formally is awkward--like invite Debbie to dinner and ... blah blah blah. either at the end of dinner everyone is ready to be all over each other or too shy to look at each other. don't do it this way.

what i have had best luck with is, a friend and myself tease each other silly, and then greet my husband at the door after the end of his work week. we both pull him in and help him undress as we lead him to the bedroom. he happily forgoes dinner for a few hours while we have a "get to know you time" or "usually just hot sex". be sure you have something easy to feed him after, the old saying is true: if he's not horny--feed him.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Aug 13, 2024 at 12:32 AM

Good advice…. If Debbie still qualifies as a “forbidden fruit”, so sex with her may be pretty intense. Reasonable for Ed and Debbie to want to repeat - with or without you…

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Aug 13, 2024 at 5:17 AM

Did same thing for best friend with wife.
She liked him to begin with and it seemed an easy natural step further.

It's best to openly talk about it first, then do it.
Then be sure to communicate all things between all 3 of you at all times.
You'll need to start letting him know when you and Debbie want to hook up.
In my case, there was full trust and it became comfortable enough that my wife would routinely have him over to fuck or stop by his apt for a quick fuck any time either wanted.
They often contacted me during, imploring me to finish up at the office asap and hurry over.
I loved coming in finding them naked and just finished and then enjoying her full of his cum while he watched.
We spent many weekends where she'd be naked and at our pleasure all weekend and we'd treat her like a queen, spoiling her with g*fts and fun sexy nights out on the town.
Do it right and you will all love it.
Go for it !

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