Women Get Their Panties In A Wad, Not Thinking Of The Consequences

My mother divorced my father because of an affair with a woman at work. It was hard going once my father stopped paying. Well things repeat themselves, twenty years later. My wife can't see straight. The humiliation of me having another woman. I've heard it all, like a broken record. Almost rehearsed, but I have no proof of who is setting her up. I did explain that after ten years of housewife a meaningful job was unlikely. There's nothing to take in a divorce, we rent and neither car is paid off. My salary isn't great, so child support won't be much. We don't have alimony in our state.

She has a hurt she can't fix, what is is, what was was. And she knows full well my #2 isn't going anywhere, unless it's to become #1 if my wife continues to push her narrative. I never understood my mother's decision, eating shit was the wrong decision. I'm trying to press on my wife, shit don't taste good. Better to accept than fight. She's #1 and my office girl remains #2. That's the solution.