Girlfriends Cheating And I Don’t Care

So I took my girlfriends phone while she was asleep and went through it. She didn’t know I knew her passcode but I do. I realize this is a red flag a breach of trust etc.
Well one of the text convos I assume she meant to delete or she just didn’t think I’d ever be in her phone revealed her affair. There were pictures and videos of her with a hilariously large dick. Giving it a blowjob and getting fucked. It said let me know next time your man ain’t home again.
I wasn’t mad, sad, angry, excited no real feelings. My only thought was how does she take that big fucker. I never have had a possessive attitude towards sex.

I would be willing to open the relationship. I just wish she had discussed it with me prior. It feels like a trust issue now

So I don’t know if I should bring up the situation with her or just ignore it.

Just venting

Comments

Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 28, 2024 at 7:16 AM

i’m not approving of her actions, but it sounds like you have trust issues both ways. Her cheating and you snooping through her phone. This relationship might be OK for dating, but it probably shouldn’t go any furter than that, ie marriage. you didn’t really say if you had an exclusive arrangement with this girl. If not well, she just had casual sex with somebody else. No reason you can’t do the same.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 28, 2024 at 8:24 AM

So you were exclusive but you suspected she wasn’t and you don’t care now that you found out she’s not.

Honestly good for you monogamy is overrated anyway

I found out about my girls affair in the exact same way through snooping her phone. Except I lightheartedly confronted her about it. I just straight up asked babe whose black cock are you sucking on your phone, looks like your really into it

Which allowed us to open a conversation about opening our relationship.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 4, 2024 at 9:37 PM

If you've never had a positive attitude torwards sex it may be time to really explore with your girlfriend and find out what you really like most in sex, everyone has certain things that will turn them on much more than others its all about exploring different things to find it, and there should be 0 shame in this process if something turns you on big time it's good to remind yourself its completely normal even if your girlfriend doesn't think so some other girl out there will love it. As others have said talking about opening the relationship may be your best bet, I personally would try to please her more in bed and make her happier in life, at the same time I would be snooping on her phone and seeing if things dicipated or remained the same with him and or other guys, im a bit of a cuck so I would enjoy seeing her take others cocks behind my back knowing she's going to come home and get pleased even better by her man's cock and tongue, might even taste a little left over cum, certainly not for every man though we all have our thing as I said, do what you think is best man,

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 9, 2024 at 8:49 AM

Thought I was alone on this one , my wife openly admitted to cheating on me, honestly didn’t really care only because I knew the leverage it came with.. i didn’t cheat back but she sure is doing whatever I like in the bedroom. Don’t get me wrong betrayal sucks, but if they willing to do whatever ,the ball is in your court. And stays there

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 15, 2024 at 7:33 PM

Guys fuck my wife she denies it but we both know I know , I put out a voice recorder and heard her with a guy , he fucked her then said that’s the best pussy I ever had , I guess if it’s good it should be shared as long as I get it

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