Straight Male / 38
I Cheated, Update
Last week I cheated for the first time during my marriage, and I was beating myself up over it. My wife Robin doesn’t know, but I hooked up with Kristie a girl who works near me.
For the first 2 days, I didn’t even have lunch at the usual restaurant that Kristie and I dine at. Finally she called me at work and said we need to talk. I was afraid of what she might say or do, but was unprepared for her conversation.
I knew her husband had passed a few years ago, but over a glass of wine she explained things we had never discussed. She’s 3 years older than me, earns a substantial amount more than I do. Her house is paid off and doesn’t want to try dating or dating apps. It took a long time for her to be comfortable enough to decide to open up to me, and was surprised and almost offended by how long it took me to get with her. She explained what she’s looking for in our relationship.
Not looking for a boyfriend or husband.
She’s looking for a safe, kind of monogamous partner who is clean, discreet and whose company she enjoys.
She doesn’t want to be wined and dined, she’d prefer if she entertains at home.
She doesn’t want to lead me on, she is happy with being a self sufficient mistress, who is tired of being alone.
Then she explained that she rarely gets off by penetration, but loves receiving oral, is happy to reciprocate and is perfectly happy to assist in making sure we both get what we need in bed.
I was at a loss for words. We sat and talked for a bit, and she told me I needed to head home to my family. No kiss goodbye, no set time and date. She just got up and left. When I got to my car, there was an envelope with the key to her place and a new phone number to reach her at. And an IOU for “ anything you want “.
I’ll update soon
For the first 2 days, I didn’t even have lunch at the usual restaurant that Kristie and I dine at. Finally she called me at work and said we need to talk. I was afraid of what she might say or do, but was unprepared for her conversation.
I knew her husband had passed a few years ago, but over a glass of wine she explained things we had never discussed. She’s 3 years older than me, earns a substantial amount more than I do. Her house is paid off and doesn’t want to try dating or dating apps. It took a long time for her to be comfortable enough to decide to open up to me, and was surprised and almost offended by how long it took me to get with her. She explained what she’s looking for in our relationship.
Not looking for a boyfriend or husband.
She’s looking for a safe, kind of monogamous partner who is clean, discreet and whose company she enjoys.
She doesn’t want to be wined and dined, she’d prefer if she entertains at home.
She doesn’t want to lead me on, she is happy with being a self sufficient mistress, who is tired of being alone.
Then she explained that she rarely gets off by penetration, but loves receiving oral, is happy to reciprocate and is perfectly happy to assist in making sure we both get what we need in bed.
I was at a loss for words. We sat and talked for a bit, and she told me I needed to head home to my family. No kiss goodbye, no set time and date. She just got up and left. When I got to my car, there was an envelope with the key to her place and a new phone number to reach her at. And an IOU for “ anything you want “.
I’ll update soon
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