Stepping Back From The Confusion, Lesbians Are Born To Have Children

I am the third generation first born lesbian. The line shifted and my sister's first born is a lesbian. Being lesbians didn't excuse us, and doesn't excuse my niece, from opting out of being mothers. It's pretty damn obvious we are made to have children. Look in the mirror.

In my grandmother's day, she was rebellious and disobedient, she was married at sixteen to a man twenty years older. She had nine children. My mother fought her fight before being stood at the altar, to bed with a husband or a lifetime in a convent. She had four children. It came my turn when I finished college and a man was presented to me without an option, to bed and be fruitful. All men are men who are self made, with a hand on the reigns and quite able to put us to heal. I have two children.

I made the mistake of going behind my husband's back and getting my tubes ties after the birth of my son. I've paid for that with a second family and step children. My niece is 28 and a product of her generation. Like it or not, her mission in life isn't an option. A man in his late thirties is available, paid for, to marry her and bring her to heal. He is a widower and has two children in desperate need for a wife and mother. She'll do fine once she accepts her mission. The mirror does not lie. The secret to lesbian life long marriages is men who can bring her to heal.

We are proof that the secret formula works and brings forth children.