My Husbands Fantasy
- That's Juicy! 25
- Remove It! 4
This site is littered with married men who have pestered their wives into doing that. The wife finally caves in and then finds she enjoys sex more with other men besides her husband and doesn’t want to give it up. He’s making a big mistake and chances are he’ll probably end up losing you over it. My advice buy a big dildo and use it and let him fantasize about it. If you bring other men into your bed, you’re making a big mistake.
It is a huge step. You need to talk with him and work out all the ground rules. How, and more importantly who, will choose the guy, condoms or not, kissing allowed or not, just vaginal or anal too, will you husband be there, etc. All these things need to be discussed and agreed before you do this. Ultimately it's your choice on how you want to act. You're the one having sex after all. If you want to be slutty, tell your husband that. If you want to be submissive, tell your husband that. You and he need to agree on everything beforehand and you need to stick to the agreement during or there's bound to be jealousy. Many couples enjoy the lifestyle and it enhances their marriages. Many more rush into it, or push one or the other into it, and it blows up in their face.
I disagree with the comment above me. It depends on the couple. I been with my wife since 1980 and over the years we had around 10- 3 ways with other bisexual guys. While dating my now wife I came out to her that I was bisexual and wanted to share her with other men. It worked for us. I know what he is saying but the couple has to make it clear what the rules and boundaries are. If it breaks up it wasn't a strong marriage to begin with.
here is a different angle on it than the others have said: my wife and i went this route and i enjoy it, a lot. she has sex with others and that turns me on and she enjoys it. we talk about it and i love it.
the problem--she started meeting one person a lot, she fell in love with him-does not bother me--but the guy only wants her when he's horny. so she sees him, everything is good, then he shuts her out and she is depressed.
so, do other guys if you want--and have a great time--don't get into this situation.
Don't do it. You're not ready. That's clear in your opening sentance, "My husband really want's to see me fucked". Meaning he wants this for HIS voyeristic pleasure, not for your pleasure. He clearly watches too much porn and gets off on the idea of it but porn and reality are worlds apart.
Your post is littered with apprehension. You two need to communicate far more than you have. My wife and I have been happily married for 32 years and have had both male and female partners join us but with very thought out and clear rules.
Never in our marital bed, that's our sacred place.
Another woman is primarily for my pleasure, not hers. Another man is for her pleasure, not mine.
We both chose the 3rd together. Always and only safe, no unprotected scenario ever. Respect, respect and respect.
100% comfort between all or it doesn't happen.
I guarantee that if you agree to do this due to his insistence and play out whatever fantasy scene he has in his brain, your marriage will be over.
I wish you both the best.