Husband Urged Me To Do It, Now He's Upset

My husband of 10 years kept talking to me, pressuring, me, encouraging, and urging me to sleep with another man for him. Frankly, I finally agreed to sleep with a mutual friend that I liked. I went to his home and spent the night with him. As it turned out, it was exciting and orgasmic.
My husband wanted to know all of the details, and I told him. Now he is upset with me. First, he expected me to come home after our friend had fucked me once. Instead, I called my husband to let him know I was spending the night with our friend. He fucked me four times and I had him in my mouth a few times. Second, he realized my decision to spend the night was because I was enjoying our friend sexually and wanted more. My husband really wanted to control my tryst with another man by limiting what was going to happen, but he lost control. Now he is angry with me. It really annoys me that he pressured me for so long to fuck another man and because it didn't go exactly the way he wanted, I am being blamed.