A consistent high-fiber diet is the most important thing. Better that it be from fruits and vegetables than from fiber supplements.
Avoid eating too much in the hours before you get fucked. Give your body time to eliminate naturally.
Douche with a Fleet enema or other similar product that you can find at a phärmacy. Repeat until the water is clear. Take your time.
Lay down an old towel (or bring wipes, if you fuck in a public place) so that there's no stress.
Pause and go to the shower if there's any uncertainty. Your top should be understanding. Bottoms do a lot of work to prepare, whereas tops just have to stick it in.
In a pinch, you can take Imodium a few hours before getting fucked. Keep in mind, though, that ALL artificial interventions, including fiber supplements, douching, and Imodium, affect your body. Use sparingly.
Also, if you haven't already, talk with a medical professional about PrEP, doxy-PEP, vaccinations (HPV, Hep A, Hep B, meningitis, Mpox) and a regular testing schedule (usually every 3 months). Then, you can enjoy the intimacy of bare cock and the pleasure of being inseminated.
As a top, I don't use condoms and I don't pull out; I have to do those things when having sex with women outside my marriage, so why would I want to do those things when fucking men?!
Have fun and confess here about your anal adventures!
The above commentary is very comprehensive and sounds like he knows what he is talking about. The thing I do with slutty women I have fucked in the ass is have them wear butt plugs during the day they know I'm going to fuck them. Start small and graduate up to a larger size plug, then your ass will ne stretched and ready for cock.
Thank you!
Plugs and toys are a great addition, as is your suggestion to work up gradually to larger sizes.
Here's to lots of mutual pleasure!
If I know the night before which is all the time, I treat it like getting a colonoscopy. I have 3 different lovers that are steadies and married. One we get together once a month, one we get together twice a month and the one with the largest cock dose me one to two times a week.
Metamusil type fiber drink about a week before your first session, plenty of lube just before penetration, and a lubricated condom have to be safe, and then enjoy the ride you will both love it!
Thanks for all your great responses but I do have one follow up question. Even with all the preparation how would you handle an accident as a bottom? What if you still had a little waste in the hallway, if you know what I mean.
I would not think that with a cleansing prep as described and you have not eaten anything prior to the engagement there would be anything to worry about
