I Married A Non-fetish Non - Kinky Male And Today I Feel Cheated

Where to start this conversation? Ok let's start here. On Thursday nights it's lady night with lady friends from high school. What do they talk about? Their threesomes, bedsharing, boy toys, being watched by their husbands and a few of them being gang banged.
With us? Tom and I have been married for 12 years. I'll say it's somewhat normal sex. Sure, we take turns being on top. Doggy style. Oral sex on both of us. Yes, I swallow his loads without any hesitations, and he'll lick his cream pies. I have these dreams being taken after Tom finishes and feeling a fresh stiff dick penetrate me. Or Tom watching me fuck or suck another guy off. He has never hinted or asked.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 25, 2025 at 5:13 AM

You know what, Carol? Fuck Tom! Men have controlled women's sexuality since time immemorial, but that is changing now. Since your girlfriends are into threesomes, go play with them and their husbands!

You'll gain clarity about your own marriage to Tom. Can he grow to satisfy you sexually? Failing that, can he give you a hall pass? And if none of the above, it will be time to divorce his ass!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 25, 2025 at 5:34 AM

Have you asked him or talked about your fantasies. most men want a slut in the bedroom if my wife would say something like that I would absolutely jump on the opportunity to make her dreams come true.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 25, 2025 at 7:32 AM

Problem is you got married too young at 20 years old. You never explored sexually, and you have desires to go do that now. You and your husband are still young and he may share your fantasies as well. Have a conversation about them with him. But beware, sometimes fantasies are best left as the fantasy, in your minds eye. Making them come true doesn't always play out the way you see it. And your girlfriend's sex lives are most likely embellishments, if at all even true.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 25, 2025 at 7:55 AM

I’ll tell you, we were the exact opposites . I was kinky the wife was not. I’ll tell you what turned her around, just a simple cell phone set up like I was gonna record. I told her I might be recording I might not be, and she turned into a slut. Since them both of us have found our bi-sides, Have had outdoor sex and public sex and multiple threesomes. Talk to him start somewhere he may surprise you.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 25, 2025 at 8:25 AM

I love to watch my lovely wife sucking cock like a whore. It's so sexy to have her be my personal porn star and she is a bit of an exhibitionist and gets hot knowing she's being watched. She is extremely oral and always swallows. She also loves her ass played with and penetrated.
I'm also excited to kiss her and smell the cock on her lips and face. LOVE when she says stuff like "That's it daddy; fuck me deep in my ass daddy. Take what's yours." Or she just sort of groans and begs me not to stop.
I do love to see her gaped pink hole with Pearl Jam dripping slowly down her thighs.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 25, 2025 at 11:58 AM

Carol, after reading your confession, it doesn't seems to me like Tom is too conservative. Talk to him. Tell him about the raunchy conversations with your friends. Let him know how sexy you find it. Tell him your fantasies. I bet you'll find him receptive! Best of luck.

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threesome2069

by threesome2069 on Mar 27, 2025 at 8:28 AM

i dont agree with poster 1.You are married and whether or not you both belong to each other.

Has he stepped out? Has he left you confused on whether or not hes been infaithful or that yoy arr not enough for him. If the answers are no, then do not get outaide of your marriage people say that because they are not in love (loving someone and being in love are still different). They are selfish and hurtful people.

Now on to the other posters. I agree, talk with your husband and start small. Do yall like anal? Do yall have toys? If not, start with that, let him put it ij your ass, left him explore a new hole with you. Then slowly bring in the toys. While he is deep in your pussy or ass ask him if you can have a toy in the other. See how he reacts does it turn him on, does he get harder, does he fuck differently.

Again depending on how he reacts ask him to use a toy while you suck him. Moan and tell him how good he feels in your mouth while you have a toy in you. Get a suction cup toy, change up and let him split roast you from behind whole you sucj on your toy that was just in your pussy. Tell him hoe good pussy tastes while he bangs you from the back and using those hard strokes to suck the toy in your mouth.

Also, get a toy for him, use it on his dick while you sit on his face grinding whike he eats you out cuming on his face and working the toy until he busts his load into it.

If he enjoys, likes, talks, gets turned on then slowly bring up what you want to do.

But also, encourage him that it wont change a thing and that you would also explore that same feeling he has when he has two beautiful pussies taking turns on him.

Then the bottom line and this is the most important, make rules hard and fast rules. No meeting without the other knowing oe being involved. No cheating and no back door scheduling. Everything is done to the level that you agree. I would also say no friends or family as that couod get very messy.

Now, if he doesnt agree you have a choice are you in love and want to be with him and can accept your with a single man for the rest of your life or do you just love him or love the situation your in but do not want to say. I heard the 80-20 rule, your partner meets 80% of what you want but not the 20% of what you want. Is it worth ruining for that or is it worth doing something else like toys to offset that 20%.

This is a rule for both men and women. At the end of the day ilwhen in a relationship we allow the other person to control a subset of our lives some more than others. If your marriage is good anf i mean good and you are still in love with your partner they should always be on your mind with every action, word, gesture that you do.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 2, 2025 at 10:15 AM

Same advice I give everyone in this situation. See what HE wants and needs that he isn’t getting. He’ll ask you the same question soon enough.

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