Bad Sailor

I live in a small hamlet in Greenland.
I am a Inuit woman , single mom three sons ages 21, 19 and 14 months. I am 45 years old

A guy from Ireland came to our hamlet to captain a Fishing Vessel. He is 34 years old.
My two sons were fishing on the same vessel.

Overtime he became friends with my son's and me. He often joined us for meals and family get togethers.

Eventually my self and him got into a relationship. It's a small hamlet with only 310 residents so there are not many available men to chose from.

I thought I had found my soulmate when we began our relationship. I loved him and both my sons liked him

I got pregnant and had his baby who is now 14 months old.

He ( Patrick) got transfered to another ship in the Faroe Islands. Now he will not answer my text or have any contact with me.
He is telling his friends here in our hamlet that " I never knocked her up, I had a vasectomy 5 years ago".
He was the only man I was with. I know he is the Dad. I remember the night I got pregnant. He was at sea fishing 17 days. When we had sex he only lasted a few minutes and ejaculated inside me. After that I missed my period. At first I thought it was because of menopause as I am 45 but it pregnancy. Here I am now 45 years old with a baby boy whose dad abandoned us both

Beware of sweet talking sailors that lie and only want to get their load off