My Wife Needs More

My wife and I have been married for 24 years. Our sex life has always been good, or at least so I thought. Lately she has been letting me know she wants and needs more than my 4” fully hard cock.

I love my wife dearly and would do almost anything to make her happy. I’ve offered and tried to wear extensions or to use toys to give her what she needs. But she keeps bringing up her lack of satisfaction in a way that makes me think she wants another man for sex. She has not said so outright, but I’m not sure what else is left.

I want my wife to be happy and sexually satisfied. But the idea of her having another man in bed makes me crazy and sad. What can I do?

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Seagull57

by Seagull57 on Jun 30, 2025 at 6:40 AM

Steve, you've been dealt a tough hand! Your dick is not large, mine is not either, so your wife may well be seeking an occasional bit of playtime with someone larger. This leaves you with a couple options. Allow her to find a lover or perhaps bring in an escort whenever she feels the itch. In my opinion, allowing a lover is a dangerous move. The chances of her preferring a larger cock and wanting the affair to continue is too great. The escort, on the other hand, is safer. The two of you can choose a companion. You can veto anyone you find too intimidating, meet at a hotel and see how it all goes. It's all a transaction, he is providing a service. Once done, he goes away, never to be seen again. Also, no chance of a repeat or a relationship developing without payment. If all goes well for the two of you, perhaps she does this a few times a year. If you really enjoy it, you may consider getting into swinging. It's something to think about.
Also, I would immediately surprise her with some toys! A vibrator and a decent sized dildo may also solve or lessen the problem. Good luck!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 30, 2025 at 8:05 AM

At 4”, you’re definitely at a disadvantage. I’ve been a bull for many couples with husbands who have wimpy dicks. I set the standards right off the bat. She starts gettIng to needy or attached, I’m done.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 30, 2025 at 10:02 AM

You need to start facing facts. She wants a bigger dick and she will find one. It’s not really fair to expect her to be sexually unsatisfied by a small cock the rest of her life. Find someone for her or she will find that someone herself. Limit the damage with an agreement like my wife and I have. She’s allowed to sleep at his place 2 nights a week, no friends or friends of friends allowed. She stays at his place, he’s not allowed at our place.

She usually just spends the weekend with him and comes home Sunday morning to get ready for church.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 30, 2025 at 12:07 PM

If you don’t want her cheating on you then you will let her fuck other guys. I let my wife have sex with other guys after being married and having kids our sex life had slowed down mostly because I wasn’t home I had started a new business and was working endlessly. But she also wanted a bigger cock and wanted a bbc. One of her friends was always dating bbcs so my wife heard many stories. I didn’t set boundaries which I definitely think you should. But know she will be a slut for him and do things that she doesn’t for you. My wife’s bbc boyfriend gave her facials throat fucked her was her her first anally got her to have sex with females and gangbanged her with his friends and friends of friends that we ended up knowing and were friends of ours. So the discreet part that we wanted was gone. We choose someone from our neighborhood and she had met him at our ymca and many of our guy friends single and married worked out there. So when word got out they all eventually got an invite to a gangbang party. It was embarrassing for me at first that they found out and got to fuck her but the few married ones never brought it up. But the few single ones would always bring it up and openly talked. Eventually my brother found out and he brought our cousin there both fucking her. After about two years of her getting her pussy beat up she finally decided mostly I think of so many rumors and many of her girlfriends finding out she quit with anyone from the ymca friends or my family. We then found someone a little further away and this time we set boundaries. Because letting probably around forty guys over that two years use her was not what I think either of us thought it would be be or our friends and some of my family members definitely wasn’t what I wanted.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 30, 2025 at 3:33 PM

If my wife’s body count was as high as 40, I’d push her to try for the century mark. Screwing 100 different guys is an achievement few can claim. I’m sure she can do it if she puts her back into it. I’d reward her with a “100” tattoo just above her pubes.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 30, 2025 at 3:33 PM

I am married (for 29 years) mom (age 51) of four. My husband has a 4.5 inch penis and he couldn't ever satisfy me.

Ten years ago, I was travelling in a night bus with other guests to attend a relative's wedding. My seat was at the back row of the bus beside this young around 22 year old man. There were g*fts on the seats in front of us for couple of rows and we were kind of hidden from other guests.

We started talking on the way. He was bold and flirting with me and made me feel attractive and blush, I couldn't stop myself from flirting back.

At night as the lights dimmed and the other guests went to sleep, he secretly started touching me and fingered me, telling me how hot I look and I just let him. He placed my hand on his cock which was rock hard and much bigger than my husband. I was drawn to him and touched and rubbed his cock as he slowly pushed my head on it and made me suck him. He soon blew a huge load in my mouth and not to leave any evidence behind I swallowed it all. but he didn't get soft, I guess my face still near his shaft made him maintain his hardness. Then he pulled me on his lap and pulled down my panties and made me sit on him. I tried him to stop but too afraid that too much commotion can wake other guests up and so I gave in. I was so wet, it easily slid inside me and I slowly rode him until he came again but this time inside me.

Even when we reached the destination, I couldn't stop flirting with him.
Eventually snuck out from the reception and went to the rooftop with him to have sex.
It was almost four years since I had any sex with husband and he made me orgasm so many times. We exchanged numbers and started sexting and meeting up couple of times in a month.

After some time I felt guilty and wanted to come clean, but to my surprise my husband told me that he already knew and he set up the meeting with the young man for me which I thought was just a chance. Husband also told that my bull also send him pics and videos of us after every time I had sex with him and my husband loved watching them and jerking off to them. My husband let me continue seeing other men since then.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 30, 2025 at 7:21 PM

My wife’s body count is higher than the forty that banged her in those two years. Before we dated she said she was at around 15. And that 12 was from one night at a HS party that they ran a train in her. The other 3 were boyfriends. And since those 40 she’s had approximately another 20 over the years. So she’s around 75 maybe 80 tops. She’s definitely has slowed down as the years go mostly will play when on vacation now. But I think the 100 mark she’ll get to

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 30, 2025 at 10:18 PM

There is nothing to be sad about. You can eat her lovers' loads out of her pussy, as a way of sustaining intimacy and taking part in your wife's sex life with other men.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 1, 2025 at 3:44 AM

The first time we swapped was on a cruise, apparently the wife of the couple we met had told mine that her husband was very hung, add in a lot of wine and I am back at our cabin with her. She came out of the bathroom already naked, put her clothes over on the dresser and then sat down on a chair and said she wanted to see my cock, told me her husbands was about eight inches and very thick. I walked over and she did undid my pants and pulled down my boxers and looked up at me saying what is your wife talking about, you are thick too. I told her maybe she just wanted someone different for a change of pace, I came and she was swallowing and letting out these high pitched moans, told me I came a lot. When we woke up the next morning and went to breakfast our spouses were already there, we talked and laughed, spent most of the day together and at the end of the day my wife told me it was a lot of fun and I was right because she told me she just wanted someone else for a change of pace.

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athensgold124

by athensgold124 on Jul 1, 2025 at 5:33 AM

It would drive me nuts knowing some young stud was fucking my wife and she treasured it over me.

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