Confused

I’m 36 and been divorced for 2years now. My wife left me to raise my two boys on my own. I’m so thankful for HER parents stepping up and helping me, as it’s not easy raising them and working. When I see my father in law with the boys, taking them fishing and playing ball with them, I can’t help but think they need a strong father figure in their life. I’m definitely ready to find love again and I’m think a stronger man may be a better choice than a woman this time around.