Straight Male / 27
Married, In Love With A Married Woman
On the surface I have everything a man could want, including a pretty wife and beautiful babies. The thing is, my wife lost interest in sex right after our younger baby was conceived.
I don't ask anymore because she just gets frustrated. She doesn't even want to hold hands or cuddle. I've encouraged her to see a doctor or at least a therapist, but she won't do anything about her problem.
As a man obviously I need sex. During my wife's last pregnancy I met a girl at work, Danielle, who stepped up. The day after we met she blew me in an empty office at work. I didn't have to put my hand on her head to make her swallow my load. She ate my sperm willingly, straightened her outfit, and went to her afternoon meeting.
When we met Danielle was engaged. I kept hoping I'd win her heart, get her to break her engagement, and then be able to make plans with her. I would divorce my wife, no questions asked, if I could marry Danielle.
Even though we text all night, we kiss, and we say "I love you" daily, she took the easy way out. She went ahead and married her husband.
We broke up for a week after her wedding but she came back to me.
Her first child is actually mine, not her husband's.
The thing is, I can't convince her that we have a future together. We just need to divorce out spouses and start fresh.
It's getting to the point where I can't have sex with her anymore because it's too emotional. The last time I begged her to marry as I was nutting inside her. We cuddled after the sex but all I could do was cry and tell her it feels as if she is already, in my head and ind, my real wife.
How do I cope with my emotions while still being with this girl? We're trying for her second child right now, so the ties get deeper and deeper.
Should I divorce my wife pre-emptively to show Danielle I'm serious?
I don't ask anymore because she just gets frustrated. She doesn't even want to hold hands or cuddle. I've encouraged her to see a doctor or at least a therapist, but she won't do anything about her problem.
As a man obviously I need sex. During my wife's last pregnancy I met a girl at work, Danielle, who stepped up. The day after we met she blew me in an empty office at work. I didn't have to put my hand on her head to make her swallow my load. She ate my sperm willingly, straightened her outfit, and went to her afternoon meeting.
When we met Danielle was engaged. I kept hoping I'd win her heart, get her to break her engagement, and then be able to make plans with her. I would divorce my wife, no questions asked, if I could marry Danielle.
Even though we text all night, we kiss, and we say "I love you" daily, she took the easy way out. She went ahead and married her husband.
We broke up for a week after her wedding but she came back to me.
Her first child is actually mine, not her husband's.
The thing is, I can't convince her that we have a future together. We just need to divorce out spouses and start fresh.
It's getting to the point where I can't have sex with her anymore because it's too emotional. The last time I begged her to marry as I was nutting inside her. We cuddled after the sex but all I could do was cry and tell her it feels as if she is already, in my head and ind, my real wife.
How do I cope with my emotions while still being with this girl? We're trying for her second child right now, so the ties get deeper and deeper.
Should I divorce my wife pre-emptively to show Danielle I'm serious?
