Find yourself a MAN. That boy just isn't "cutting it." I bet he gets off each time you have sex.
You claim you have healthy active sex life with BF but you don't reach the big O. Now that's not very healthy. I have to agree with other reply; I bet the BF gets off each time. He's your problem girl. He should WAIT for you for starters.
geez, i was 12 when i first orgasmed. tell him to check out "the joy of sex" or sumthing. maybe he'll learn a thing or two.
Does he go down on you? If not, find a REAL man who knows what the fuck he's doing.
I feel so uncomfortable when guys go down on me but that is the only time I've EVER had an orgasm from a guy.
Get a vibrater so you can give yourself one then you will know how great it feels and you can tell him what to do to get you off. Some of the best o's I have had have been with myself.
I was nineteen, almost twenty when I finally learned how to make myself come. honestly it was just a lot of time by myself under the covers thinking about WHATEVER I wanted and wetting my finger with my tongue and tapping and rubbing at my clit. it's sort of this relaxation/acknowledging what thoughts really turn you on thing. for me it just took time and then finally it worked!!! and at first the orgasms were kind of mild. just this soft rush shudder feeling over my body. and then years later- it's absolutely insane how powerfully I can make myself come. just keep touching yourself- if it feels good do it some more. or get your boyfriend to do it. but if your nervous about it it might be easier to do it by yourself cause then you never have the added pressure of wondering if you are getting tired.