i have a huge crush on one of my teachers at school and now i have left and am going to be attending a different school i really want to do something about my crush. Excpet, i'm not sure it is just a crush. I have a boyfriend who i really love and i feel for this teacher in the exact same way i do for my boyfriend. He taught me for 4 years and we got really close, if he ever needed any help with anything after school he would ask me to stay behind and help, even though he knew i had this crush on him. In my eyes that is him actively encouraging my interest in him. And he was one those really flirtacious teachers, he had a laugh with all of the girls but it was different with me, much worse, it wasn't just me who had noticed this. He would always make jokes with me that had sexual inuendos in them and at times said things that quite frankly were very unprofessional (not that i minded!) But i never had the guts to try anything and i knew he could hav lost his job so i wouldn't have anyway but now i've left it's so tempting. I have a friend who has his mobile number (he gave it him during a school trip they organised together) and my friend has said that he will give me the number if i want but i don't know what to do!? please give me some advice.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 1, 2006 at 6:08 AM

If you are underage, you could cost your crush his job and even send him to prison. Why not wait until you're 18?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 1, 2006 at 8:30 AM

I agree with the earlier poster.
Your 'crush' could pay very dearly for any sexual encounter with you.
Many persons flirt and take chances with others whom they have no real intention of having sex or relationships with.
This teacher was probably just provoking you, maybe seeing how far he could go with you, or just teasing you about your probably painfully obvious crush on him.
It's okay to tell him how you feel in a non-sexual way and situation AFTER you've left high school.
He will probably be touched and flattered, but don't expect anything more than that - for both your sakes.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 1, 2006 at 12:13 PM

A "Crush." Well that and the 5th grade grammer kinda says it all. Leave the guy alone and stick with who you called, "boyfriend." In about 5-7 yrs when you turn 18 go back and visit one day and see where it goes if you want. Until then, STAY AWAY.

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