My boyfriend sometimes slips on my panties during lovemaking. I always thought it was kinky and just went along with it. He recently admitted that it's a huge turn on and wants me to help him do a full makeover makeup and everything. I searched the web and found a survey that said 85% of the women would kick him to the curb if they found this out. I'm curious if that is true. I'm not sure I'm ready to do that. He's a great boyfriend other than that. Any thoughts?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 28, 2007 at 5:47 AM

Don't believe everything you read; especially on the web. Even if the number was 99% and it was real; big deal. All that matters is how YOU feel. For the record, I think its neet and have slipped even slipped a g string on my BF a couple times.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 28, 2007 at 3:01 PM

Thanks. I have mixed feelings. How far does he want to go? Is he gay?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 28, 2007 at 5:01 PM

Doen't nessecerily mean he is gay, but I would watch it.
Many men have even gone through with getting married and having children before they come to the realization that they actually want to LIVE like a woman.

It's one thing if YOU find it is a turn on, but him asking to wear YOUR underwear is a little strange. I would keep an eye out for other suggestive behaviors.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 28, 2007 at 7:04 PM

It is not strange.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 29, 2007 at 9:22 AM

If anyone cares I have decided to go along with his request and see where it goes. It actually has been in my thoughts and kind of turning me on. It was fun to play dress up as kids and I think it's harmless. I went out this morning and picked up a pantygirdle with cute little floral embroidery on it in black, a garter belt, stockings, a slip and a package of six pairs of nylon panties in various colors. I am going to give them to him tonight. He's really a sweet guy and has been very good to me. I think I'll indulge him a little.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 29, 2007 at 3:25 PM

It sounds like you have some lesbo tendencies.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 30, 2007 at 10:56 PM

I doubt he is gay.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 31, 2007 at 2:29 AM

You may be right but as someone said earlier if he's okay with it and I am okay with it and no one is getting hurt what's the harm. We had a lot of fun. He enjoyed his new things,

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 31, 2007 at 7:18 PM

man i wish i could find a girlfriend as great as you

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 3, 2007 at 5:49 PM

yeah ur pretty supportive. more people should be supportive. but don't get hurt

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 3, 2007 at 8:15 PM

It is not strange. Don't knock it until you have tried it.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 7, 2007 at 12:40 AM

he sounds like he's gay

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 20, 2007 at 4:13 PM

When a girl wears pants and cotton underwear is she a crossdresser?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 20, 2007 at 7:21 PM

Who is this?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 20, 2007 at 7:23 PM

Noyhing wrong wirh a male wearing panties. Why would you think it is gay.

If a guy wanted to wear another guys underwear, then he would be gay.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 30, 2011 at 2:09 PM

He's not gay. Don't listen to all the horror stories on the web about people getting married then turning gay. It's only the stories like that which get posted and talked about. I know plenty of straight men that get dressed from time to time.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 15, 2012 at 6:54 AM

We get all caught up in labels and names we know he is not gay because he is with you. He is bi at the very least. Generally speaking I would say the two of you need to fill out a fetish check list which details any where from 50 to 100 different fetishes and ranks them on a scale from 1-5 how each person feels about them. It also scores whether or not the person had done the activity. This was extremely helpful for me in the relationships I have been in and I will go out on a limb and say they are critical in developing a healthy relationship. You can find them online under fetish check list. You may want to pick out the one for you because some are geared more toward BDSM and others more toward run of the mill fetishes or sexuality in general. Hey great way to break the ice and you will only strengthen the relationship. I had a blast with it because it put all my worries about my partner accepting me all behind me. My own 2 cents worth of advice.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 10, 2012 at 12:20 PM

Sounds like its a match made in heaven. Good for both of you, life is short, enjoy it. A lot of couples have trouble finding something that turns both on. It is 'strange' in that it is 'not common', although I've read some psychology papers that basically said that if you think something is 'normal' in sex, you don't know much about sex.

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