Don't want to get into it, but I'm ready. My sister's first time was horrible - she bled, it hurt, it was over before it really started, the rubber broke and she was totally freaked until she got her period. She told me whatever I did to make sure my first guy knew what he was doing.

All the guys my age that are experienced are also jerks, not getting into that either and certainly not going to let any of them touch my body. But I've been thinking about a friend of my dad's alot. I know he's interested from stuff he's said and how he looks at me, and he's pretty good looking.

He has a cabin not too far from where I go to school, and in the fall his wife usually doesn't go there with him cuz she doesn't hunt & he does. It's my first year in school - he's already told me to call him if I get home-sick. I'm really thinking of calling - if he's alone I could be in bed with him within hours. Is this a good plan or a really bad idea? I just don't want my first time to be a horrible thing like my sister.