Well, you made your choice, it would be fair to let your husband either join in with the fucking (do some couple swap thing or let him join in a double penetration). Why do you get to have all the fun? Let him get some pussy also!! You do have to realize that your marriage is almost surely not going to last. My ex-wife was the same way, she rarely saw a dick or pussy that she did not want in her body somewhere. So I joined in on the fucking, had a great time, but when I wanted to raise a family I had to drop her off on the curb, like you will be.
I've got to agree.
If you want to be single and pursue any man you want then bring your husband in on your fun or let him go.
It's only fair.
I sympathize, I really do. I just lost my virginity less than a year ago (at 25!) and I know EXACTLY what you mean about compensating. I've been through I think about 50 men this year.
But are you in love with your husband or not? You have to decide - do you want your husband, or do you want cock?
I made my decision - I decided that right now cock is more important than a relationship. But if I find a Someone Special, I'd drop the cock-hunting.
If you decide that cock is more important, then have the good sense and the class to drop your husband first. Cheating on someone you've made a lifelong commitment to is just trashy. (Or maybe he'd like to join in? I've only done anything with three married guys, and their wives were in on it. Well, two had wives and the other had a husband, but that's another story.)