Do it. Fuck somebody, just use protection. Don't let emotions come into play. Think of your man while you're fucking the other guy.
I will this weekend. I can't wait!
Will you honestly ever be able to forgive yourself if you do? Will you be O.K. with lying if he asks you if there were other men while he was away.? My favorite cousin of all time, was sent over to Iraq shortly after getting married, and his wife cheated on him, then left him. Then when he finally got remarried a few years later, they sent him right back for another tour (3rd one) and he was killed. Do you want that kind of stuff on your conscience? I hope you have one. You are not wrong for wanting sex, but you need to think about someone other than yourself right now. How much would that hurt him if he knew?
You don't know what this asshole has put me through. So save the sappy shit for someone weak!
My husband and I had an open relationship for a while. I have to say I really enjoyed it, and as far as I know he did too. We did it together and apart. Thing is after a while his emotions got the better of him. It took us a long time to get back to where we were to start with. If you can do and its just sex that's great, I know I can and its a ton of fun. Its always better if he knows about whats going on though.
