I have been married for about 8yrs to the same man. I have been with about 7 different men since then. I love my husband with all my heart and soul. But he doesn't have sex with me. He says he has no desire for sex anymore. The men I have been with mean nothing to me at all. All I want is my husband to make love to me once in awhile. I have begged him, cried alot with him. I have even told him I play with myself at night. Nothing seems to help. He is a great lover. He is french (and you know what they say about french men. I can't stop cheating, I have tried.