InRetrospect09

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Gender: Straight Male
Age: 37
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Confessions by InRetrospect09:

I Want My Wife To Be Submissive

I guess this is also more of me seeking advice more than a confession. But my wife and I have been married for 6 years, together for 12. When it comes to being sexual we were super vanilla at first. We fucked about 4 times a week and we have had many great experiences together. We slowly realized we wanted to also include other people so we have an ENM relationship now and we have had multiple foursomes, threesomes and even went to a sex club once. We still do this on occasion but ever since we had our second kid her sex drive is almost non existent. So we had always talked about doing more BDSM type things and she does enjoy pain from time to time. Typically she is the more dominant one in our relationship but I have been having a very deep fantasy lately, so much that I’ve had dreams about it. I want her to be my sub, I really wanna dom her properly. Like I come home and she’s on her knees and wearing leather and a collar type stuff. That type of sub dom relationship. This is so not her personality and I just don’t know how to approach it or even figure out if she’s interested in that. Her sex drive being so low lately I just don’t know what to do. Maybe this fantasy will just remain that. Any tips would help fellas.

My Co-workers

I’ll keep this simple. But when it comes right down to it, I have a crush on three of my co-workers that I work with. One of them is my boss who I have known for years. Blonde, blue eyed, milf type with an athletic body and a great ass. She was my first initial crush and over the years I have been promoted and have been steadily working closer and closer with her. We talk normally but the occasional unnoticed flirting will slip into conversations. I have secretly stared at her more times than I can count. Another coworker is a coworker that came on at the same time I did and her features are so unique and she is my type to a T. Slender body, she’s Canadian and has the thickest, curliest hair I have ever seen. Ugh the things I would do to her….she has a crazy infectious laugh and small beady little eyes that fit her face perfectly. She’s naturally a big flirt and super touchy…..I don’t mind that at all hahah. The last coworker just started a few weeks ago and she’s a dancer and has a stunning petite athletic body but a big ass which is *chefs kiss* I know nothing about her yet but my God she is fun to look at. I say all this to also confess that I masturbate AT WORK almost every day thinking of them. I’ve created scenarios in my head of us meeting and fucking and things like that. My porn searches consist of people that look similar to them or in that coworker, boss dynamic. The other day all three of them just happened to come into the break room while I was eating and started chit chatting…I was in heaven….they think I’m a nice guy and I am friends with them but if only they knew the things I think of. Oh!! And I almost forgot….we are all married or in a relationship…..that just makes it so much hotter….anyone else have these experiences?