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Women Only
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Straight Female / 44
Marrying A Foreign Man
I have some experience now, so I thought I would pass it on. Marrying a foreign man.
I was a fresh arrival at college, not yet eighteen. He was degreed in his home country and he was getting his doctorate at the same university. I met him the first week I was there before classes started. A casual conversation in line at the bookstore and I was taken to his 'lair' and didn't emerge for a week, already pregnant. During that week or so he had sex with me two or three times a day. I learned that a man is to be respected, which meant that I had to cook for him. A man's place is at the head of the table, even if it is round. And a woman's place is at his right hand. That is where you sit, on his right. Remember that one.
To a foreign man you are not 'pregnant' until after you go through morning sickness, or pregnancy sickness, and don't miscarry. Only then does he accept you as his pregnant wife. Of course once he accepts you as his pregnant wife, and you get the place to his right at the table, you also get ALL the woman work. During your pregnancy, until you are so big you can't get up, he gets sex. He gets sex, always. Remember that.
After I was 'pregnant' and I was his wife, he went to my father to negotiate for me. How much did I cost? The foreign man buys his wife, and only then do you get the symbols that you are bought, which we think of as the engagement ring. That ring means he has negotiated for you and bought you, you are now his property pending ratification by the wedding ceremony. But don't kid yourself, you already belong to him. That's why you never go out without your engagement ring.
On our side the wedding was pretty normal. Quick, I was already pregnant so don't go overboard. Practical. Legal. On his side it took months to prepare for the wedding. I was so wrapped in fabrics that my by then seven month belly was hidden. The wedding ceremony lasted for days. I had to ask when I actually 'got' married, what happened? Well getting married actually happened when I was officially pregnant. Not all girls are pregnant when they get married, because they only meet their husband at the wedding ceremony. But that's another story.
I was encouraged, pushed or shoved to finish my degree plan. I stayed with my parents until I did. With a son, and another in the oven. Foreign men keep their wives pregnant. If you don't stay pregnant don't be surprised is some interloping female gets pregnant for them. I moved abroad, to his country. The head and master of the house. He could walk tall now that he had two sons, two sons. Not one. Two. He had done well with the foreign woman.
I spent a lot of time being 'trained' for woman work. As the number one wife I was the one responsible for running his house for him. A number two wife usually is there for his pleasure. I would find out, a lesser cousin was brought in for that role. A happy girl is for him to have sex with. We call this birth control, that way the 'wife' could space her births. Thank you very much.
Of course, don't look twice if the happy girl walks around with a big belly. A fertile happy girl is a prize. If she's fertile, you had better be fertile too. Remember the big rule, a wife is there to bear. And bear you will. Remember, that is the BIG RULE. But now you have a happy girl with you to share. Oh, the happy girl is your responsibility too. Don't call her the happy girl, she is the number two wife. You will become very close with her, very, very close. The number two wife is for you closer than any sister. You bear children together, don't freak out. He is an important man, not an impotent man.
Well I've been married now for over twenty five years, it is just me and my number two wife here. There are many children and they all have to be looked after and cared for and for that you need four hands. The house is well run, that's the number one wife's main responsibility, other than bearing children. And, in the quiet of the night, making sure that number two wife sleeps up close with the husband, unless you are planning on getting pregnant again.
I was a fresh arrival at college, not yet eighteen. He was degreed in his home country and he was getting his doctorate at the same university. I met him the first week I was there before classes started. A casual conversation in line at the bookstore and I was taken to his 'lair' and didn't emerge for a week, already pregnant. During that week or so he had sex with me two or three times a day. I learned that a man is to be respected, which meant that I had to cook for him. A man's place is at the head of the table, even if it is round. And a woman's place is at his right hand. That is where you sit, on his right. Remember that one.
To a foreign man you are not 'pregnant' until after you go through morning sickness, or pregnancy sickness, and don't miscarry. Only then does he accept you as his pregnant wife. Of course once he accepts you as his pregnant wife, and you get the place to his right at the table, you also get ALL the woman work. During your pregnancy, until you are so big you can't get up, he gets sex. He gets sex, always. Remember that.
After I was 'pregnant' and I was his wife, he went to my father to negotiate for me. How much did I cost? The foreign man buys his wife, and only then do you get the symbols that you are bought, which we think of as the engagement ring. That ring means he has negotiated for you and bought you, you are now his property pending ratification by the wedding ceremony. But don't kid yourself, you already belong to him. That's why you never go out without your engagement ring.
On our side the wedding was pretty normal. Quick, I was already pregnant so don't go overboard. Practical. Legal. On his side it took months to prepare for the wedding. I was so wrapped in fabrics that my by then seven month belly was hidden. The wedding ceremony lasted for days. I had to ask when I actually 'got' married, what happened? Well getting married actually happened when I was officially pregnant. Not all girls are pregnant when they get married, because they only meet their husband at the wedding ceremony. But that's another story.
I was encouraged, pushed or shoved to finish my degree plan. I stayed with my parents until I did. With a son, and another in the oven. Foreign men keep their wives pregnant. If you don't stay pregnant don't be surprised is some interloping female gets pregnant for them. I moved abroad, to his country. The head and master of the house. He could walk tall now that he had two sons, two sons. Not one. Two. He had done well with the foreign woman.
I spent a lot of time being 'trained' for woman work. As the number one wife I was the one responsible for running his house for him. A number two wife usually is there for his pleasure. I would find out, a lesser cousin was brought in for that role. A happy girl is for him to have sex with. We call this birth control, that way the 'wife' could space her births. Thank you very much.
Of course, don't look twice if the happy girl walks around with a big belly. A fertile happy girl is a prize. If she's fertile, you had better be fertile too. Remember the big rule, a wife is there to bear. And bear you will. Remember, that is the BIG RULE. But now you have a happy girl with you to share. Oh, the happy girl is your responsibility too. Don't call her the happy girl, she is the number two wife. You will become very close with her, very, very close. The number two wife is for you closer than any sister. You bear children together, don't freak out. He is an important man, not an impotent man.
Well I've been married now for over twenty five years, it is just me and my number two wife here. There are many children and they all have to be looked after and cared for and for that you need four hands. The house is well run, that's the number one wife's main responsibility, other than bearing children. And, in the quiet of the night, making sure that number two wife sleeps up close with the husband, unless you are planning on getting pregnant again.
