Coming out of the closet is never an easy thing to do. Where you forced out by an unfortunate circumstance? Did you come out on your own terms. What and how did you finally come out? To who?

It Can Be So Good

I saw on here about how significant bi-sexual experiences are and I quite agree.
My first bi experience happened a couple of years ago with a friend. I was over at his place and we were both feeling in the mood to have some fun. So we got out of our clothes and had coffee and a cigarette naked. It felt so good having a boner together and to let our male-feelings show like that with one another without being all embarrassed about it.
We played around and, feeling daring, we sucked on each other’s penis. It was great doing that, and it encouraged me to let him butt fuck me. For me this was quite an eye-opening experience, and I know that it was for him, too.
We didn’t use a condom, feeling safe with each other, and when he ejaculated in me it was so unbelievably incredible to actually have him put his sperm into me. About half an hour later I got to do the same with him, and I remember thinking how I was actually giving him my sperm as another guy and just how significant this was. It was such a fantastic way for two friends to be close. I suppose kind of like being “blood brothers” but only much more pleasurable I’m sure.
Since then we have continued to both take pleasure in our being biologically intimate in participating in the reproductive act together as guys. I would not say that we are gay as neither of us feel attracted to other guys, just that we have come to appreciate male closeness and friendship on a far more meaningful and significant level that is worth experiencing, and I am glad that I have.

  • Why Not II

    I read on here the story, Why Not? And I have to add my own.
    I don’t think of myself gay, but over this past year I have now had regular experiences with a friend.
    The first time I remember thinking how I could not believe that I was actually being fucked by another guy. It felt very exciting, though, and I was amazed by this.
    More than that, I was surprised by just how significant it was to have another guy give me his sperm. And this was just as true when I fucked him and ejaculated my sperm into him. It was so incredible having that male experience with each other.
    Like I said, I don’t think of myself as being gay, but I am starting to think of myself as being bisexual, and so is he, and we can now both understand why this is becoming so common.

    Why Not?

    A friend and I started having a bi-friendship about a year ago. No, it wasn’t like either of us are gay. We both like girls. It’s just that with each other it’s fun and convenient, and we both appreciate how good it feels being all-male together.
    At first we were both a little cautious, as could only be expected, and it took us time to feel comfortable with this. We finally managed to start having sex with each other. I know that we were both surprised by how significant it is for one guy to give another guy his sperm and basically to biologically impregnate one another as males.
    I would have never believed how rewarding or satisfying this is.
    While we are discrete, we are really quite open about our being bi. Of course everyone thinks, oh, you have to be gay. But it’s not like that at all. We are just friends and I think that this is a whole lot more common than people think, and that it is becoming much more common all the time. I just hope that we all finally start getting past this gay thing.

  • Attractive??

    I just turned 18 and I have never been attracted to girls. I am wondering if I would be attractive to males?

    I'm 5'11", 180 pounds, and am average looking. My penis is circumcised, 3 inches when soft and on the thin side. I'm not very hairy so I don't shave.

    Help!

    I Don't Know Where My Life Is Going

    I did not go to college, I went to art school instead. I am 26, the best job I've had is working at a Coach store in the mall. All the girls there are good looking and young. I got laid off last April, furloughed but never called back. I live with another girl, we both are food servers and we both need to pool our tip to make rent. We decided to share a room and sublet one room to another server where we work, we just don't work enough hours (part time is all we've worked since Thanksgiving).

    Our bed is a double, it looked big when we first agreed to share a room. The other room also has a double. My bedmate is a cuddler, she wants to spoon. I prefer if she spoons me, but she always manages to get into my arms begore going to sleep. I get wet because she pushes the small of her back against my clit and I hump her. She waits for me to orgasm before going to sleep. I don't want to be a lesbian or even bi, but that's what we've become. We don't air kiss any more, we kiss on the lips. For the last several nights we have been sleeping without panties, we take our panties off after we get under the covers. Our new suitemate saw our panties on the floor and it's useless telling her it's not what she thinks.

    When I was a teen I dreamed of a big wedding, to an imaginary young man. Children and a home near my parents so they could help me with babysitting. Now I'm virtually broke working part time as a waitress, sleeping with a girl, kissing her face, tits and pussy and telling her I love holding her and telling her I will never leave her and I will take care of her. Last night we scissored and we both orgasmed together. I'm a lesbian. And I'm in love with her.

  • Enjoying Myself After A Lifetime In The Closet

    I am widower, grandfather. After my wife died my daughter tried to get me involved in all sorts of activities. She also insisted that I move closer to her. After a year of living close to her and never fitting in to the life in her town I took the suggestion of a friend of mine to move to the Tampa area of Florida which has many more people our age. I moved to a senior complex, I bought a two bedroom condo close to one of the pools.

    I went to several get togethers and it was pretty obvious that women outnumbered men and that the women were not hesitant to make the first move. I just wasn't ready, I did go out with a couple of the women, but their forwardness turned me off. I found that I was better off on the golf course with men. There was also poker with the guys, and one of them had a nice boat and there were expeditions offshore for the day, well stocked pantry and bar and no women to ruin the day.

    It was on one of these trips offshore that I got to talking with a man who was on his first outing with us. He was from Philadelphia, a retired insurance executive and we got along pretty well. After returning to shore that evening he suggested we get something to eat and we went to a local Greek salad place close to my complex. We walked back to my condo and as we did the nickel tour of the place he told me he liked my company.

    Long story short, he dropped his drawers and I swallowed his cock, hook, line and sinker. Fifty years after I had swallowed my coach's cock in high school. A dam burst, a hunger inside of me came alive, his hands on my head keeping me still while he thrust in and out, I did the best to hold his cock in place, he came and he held my head while he jerked out his cum. My coach of long ago use to cum in my face and I closed my eyes while he came.

    I'm a natural bottom, I always knew that, my coach knew that and it was with great anticipation that I bottomed for him several days later. Looking out the window of my condo, with this man pounding me, filling me, jerking in my ass like my coach did when he fucked me. Fifty years is a long time, but the time went away, it is like yesterday. I have a friend now, and without anyone to tell me differently I am enjoying his company and showing him how much I enjoy doing so.

    No my daughter does not know, she is just happy that I have a friend to play golf with.

    Caught Crossdressed

    I own a small business so I had a place to play when I decided to explore my bi curiosity. Using Craigslist I started to meet guys for mutual oral, I quickly realized I was only interested in sucking. So I met CL guys and gave bj’s for awhile. I met one guy and we started chatting online, he wanted me to wear pantyhose at our next meeting. I did as asked and it was a huge turn on!
    After the pantyhose experience I spent the next few months adding lingerie, shoes, wigs even makeup.
    Eventually I lost my anal virginity. All was going great. I was meeting lotsa guys
    , dressing, sucking, fucking .
    I never gave a thought to the fact that several employees had keys to the store. They never went there after hours! Then it happened.
    I was all dolled up . Thigh highs, corset, wig ,makeup, spike heels. A large tall black guy, I didn’t even know his name, had me bent over my desk buried in my butt. The door opened ,it was Gary my salesman. We were both startled, he ran out.
    The next day neither said a word. He came to my office at days end, shut the door. He said,here’s the deal .....I took a deep breath and listened.....”I want what that guy was getting last night....or I’m telling your wife “ I gulped. And said “yes sir”
    I have been his bitch ever since. He even has me going out dressed. There is talk of pimping me out for cash! Secretly I’d love it,,,,

    I Won't Take Advantage Of A Younger Woman

    I live with three other women in a shared two bedroom. My roommate is making a big deal out of an innocent thing. I am not for or against women sleeping together. It is a matter of choice, both women should choose. Not any different between a man and a woman, both should choose. I also don't believe that just because you sleep together that means your having sex. Women can sleep, and if they happen to spoon then they spoon. She got in bed with me, and I spooned her. We did not have sex.

    She wants to sleep with me, when she sleeps with me she backs into me to spoon. I hold her, I don't feel her up, or make love to her. I spoon her. If I wanted to make love with her I would start by asking. If she wants to make love she needs to ask, I don't read body language when I'm falling asleep.

    She is six years younger than me, she is young in her mind too. I will not take advantage of her. She can sleep with me, she can spoon with me. But if she is looking to make love she needs to speak up, not tell our housemate that I'm not showing her the affection she is expecting.

    Coming Out As Bisexual

    Not shockingly I came out as Bi a few months ago to mixed reactions. One reaction from a friend and another from my parents.

    I'll start with my parents. To keep it brief, I sat them down and told them I was bi. My dad was fine about it saying, "You do you" but my mom started crying. Saying stuff like, "What happened? What changed?". I just explained how I felt saying I really do have feelings for certain guys and girls. I had already been kind of "dating" a girl without them knowing for a while. I had to leave it there cause I didn't want to make it worse.

    It really started when I met this other girl in a mutual friend group last year and we just really connected. Before I knew it we were hanging out all the time and then 1 time at a party we started making out and it felt really right. Soon enough we moved to full sex within in the weeks. By then we were fully dating but I'm glad to get the weight off my shoulders.

    I'm still attracted to guys but I feel a real connection with her so, yeah. Sorry mom

  • I Finally Feel Sexy In My Body

    I was considered an attractive male once, slim, good skin, handsome, got a lot of girls, but still never felt good in my body or actually liked my looks. In my late teens, I developed more noticeable thoughts about my gender, as in increased disdain of my male features, and a growing envy of women's bodies. All the girls I was with and saw, I felt as much envy as I did attraction, if not more. I for awhile, tried different things to make myself feel better in my body, but nothing worked. I eventually got with an open minded girl who I expressed my feelings to,it was through her, I was able to discover more openly that I am trans. I spent a year or so holding it back because of fear of family backlash, but eventually I came out and transitioned, and now, love how I look. Along the way, I developed a stress eating habit too, as well as had a good appetite in general for once, perhaps too good, which led to me getting fat. I however feel much sexier as a fat woman than I ever did a slim, conventionally attractive guy. I pass well, have very large breasts, a fat ass, clothes I actually feel sexy in, and love having my breasts and ass touched and admired whenever it does happen. The quantity of sex isn't as high for me now as it was pre-transition, but the quality is higher.