I'm a mostly straight girl, but I keep getting crushes on other girls lately (I have no interest in becoming a lesbian or bi). I don't know what to do about this.
My latest crush is a girl who lives in my building, she has touched me a couple of times, so I know that I am seriously attracted to her. Sometimes I fantasize about kissing her and stuff. I know she would freak out if she knew that. I blush every time I see her. I don't know what to do about this, she for sure knows that I like her and it's really embarassing.
For a while, I was upset with her and stopped blushing in front of her. Then I didn't see her for a while, and the next time I saw her I blushed again. Does anyone know how to stop yourself from blushing?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 3, 2006 at 11:51 PM

I don't think you can stop blushing - it's an involuntary response.
As for being hot for other chicks, I'm happily married, and a mom, and I get hot for other women. I just think most women are naturally bisexual. I've shared my sexual interests with my husband, and he's not only accepting of it, he's f---ing hot over it! I have a drawer full of sex toys I make use of, and a pillow I hump whenever I'm deliriously hot for other women!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 4, 2006 at 12:52 AM

Let's see. You fantasize about kissing her and stuff? Could you please explain about the "stuff"? Also,if she has touched you,then she probably would not "freak out" as you put it.If she knows that you like her,and if she makes eye contact and doesn't discourage you from looking at her, then she may be having fantasies about you as well.Maybe you could complement her on what she's wearing.Girls do that all the time anyway.If she responds flirtateously then add that she looks hot wearing whatever it is.By this time you'll know if your on to something by how well she lights up.If she seems flattered then say something like..."you must have worn that just for me"..if you get away with that, then say " you must have been thinking of me when you were were chosing which panties to wear too..Right?".."you knew that you wanted me see them,touch them."...That should do it...I'm a guy,and I know that if I can get a girl to talk freely about her panties then I'm half way there....Here's another one.Think of a fantasy you've had about her,but imagine it in the context of a dream.Then you can say to her,"oh,wow..you know what?..The other night, I had a dream about you..It was really something.Do you want to hear about it...Well, I had this dream that you and I were driving down some lost highway on a warm full moon night.I was driving and you were next to me falling asleep..You were wearing this short flowery sun dress and it was sort of flapping in the wind. While your eyes were closed you reached down and sort of wedged it down between your legs. Your hand stayed still for a few minutes, but then.......". by explaining it as a dream you can excuse yourself from all responsibility of your own thoughts..........I hope that helps..I hope you will tell me what happens!!!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 4, 2006 at 3:44 AM

You used the word, "mostly." So your mostly straight but what about the remainder??? Your actually already "bi." You just may not have acted on it yet and until you do you'll be frustrated to some extent.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 4, 2006 at 6:39 PM

Read: "I have no interest in becoming a lesbian or bi"

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 5, 2006 at 8:24 AM

Ok, Sweetie, time to come out of the closet!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 5, 2006 at 4:32 PM

I DON'T FUCKING READ!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 15, 2006 at 9:56 AM

Don't consider yourself gay or bi or whatever! Just think of it as 'you are a sexual being'. You are prbably courious about what you haven't experienced, it's natural. I am a married guy. My best friend and I were on a weekend trip, drinking and talking guy stuff, wondering about the sexuall things of this world. One time we jerked off after going to a strip bar. Courious, we kinda peeked at each other to see how we were different. Another time we actually jerked each other. The next time, I said I wondered why some women seem to enjoy sucking and others won't get close (like my wife), so as we started to jerk again I tried it on him. He didn't seem to mind and I answered my couriousity. He came quickly and I spit it out. I like the feel of a woman and smell and taste, I was just courious and haven't done that since. Others may start that way and really like it and continue. My suggestion would be to give it a try so your couriousity doesn't eat you up. You may not like it at all or may find you live without it, you'll never know until you try.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 19, 2006 at 9:28 AM

thanks for your response. actually my curiousity is twofold, since i have never been with a guy either.

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