ok so I HATE MY NEIGHBOR and i will tell you why so it all started 3 years ago when my hubby took extra hours at work and started working at night cleaning and well it happened to be she worked at night at first you know i was like "oh thats cool what ever" but then he started telling me she brought me lunch i am not hungry oh um she went home to make me some lunch she lives really close to the school then it went something like i couldn't wait and so she invited me over to her house to have something to eat then i was like ok in the middle of sex one time he paused and said oh you know what is so funny that SHE told me course he used her actual name not to be mentioned here but you get the picture so then after i asked is this woman married and he is like ya she has 3 daughters and all from different dads i was like great one night we were folding laundry and he stopped and said you know i only love you and i am not cheating on you you know that right? and i said what and he said nothing nothing i just wanted you to know that so then on another occasion he said that they had to go to costco to buy some supply's for the school and that her husband saw them and he was mad and that they were worried that he would think that she was doing something wrong and i was like hm! well any how a year later the gas prices go up and well we needed to move so we did right next to her and i love the place it is some kind of navel housing and well it is spacious and pretty and well we are close to all so um it started to come back again the woman shed come look for him and he would let her in our home she would say stuff to the coworkers like i only talk to her because i am friends with her husband on his birthday he invited her over to our home and i had a little party for him and one of our sons and well yup she showed up with her hubby and all my fa,ily was looking at her with such disgust and well ok so at the end well my husband told her you know my wife is upset and she dont want you doing the stuff you do and he told her like come around mind your own business and yata yata yata and so we had a confrontation with her husband her and me and my hubby well i felt like a fool so angry that my husband was on their side of them saying you are over reacting and so pissed as i was i froze and said i think i had a misunderstanding with my husband and we dragged you in so thats all i said and i and so much more mad now that i want to leave my husband and i dont know what to think i love him but i have nevr seen any man be on another womans side unles there is somthing going on and well you be the judge. Q: did i over react? did i mess up by freezing up like i did? should i leave him?(by the way my hubbys family cant stand me they cant even see me they say i got pregrs to get out of my house from my parents NOT TRUE)and last but not least should i attempt this confrontation to the neighbors again??? really let me know email me [email protected]