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Women Only
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Bi-Sexual Female / 45
Definetly Bisexual And Glad
The bisexual woman.
Over the last few years I was surprised to discover that I had a bisexual side and that apparently many women do. I think that this starts to become most common in women who are in their forties and divorced. They are old enough to know life, and are not eager to become involved in a serious male-female relationship, having done all of that before. And frankly, finding a guy when you are older who is not looking for a maid, and who has an ounce of romance to his soul, is like finding hens’ teeth.
So the alternative is, why not be with someone like yourself who shares your feelings and motivations? Being romantic, sex, and without a lot of strings attached.
And finding the opportunity is simple enough. You meet someone to be friends with, get together, you start talking about relationships, and before you know it you are both saying how nice it would be to meet someone, maybe just to have a satisfying casual relationship without a lot of complications, and the two of discover that there is an easy and rather attractive rapport. And from there, the diea of why not enjoy this together as a pleasing alternative emerges.
This is the way it has gone with five different female friends now. It was easy to have the desire to get naked and have some very lovely sex and closeness. I think that once you are open to that sort of thing, well the opportunities just present themselves. There is no seduction or playing coy little games, but that it is basically quite straightforward, which is very refreshing and nice.
This has been how it has been for me, anyway. I am no longer thinking that having bisexual feelings or attractions is something odd or to be embarrassed about, and yes, I have openly started thinking of myself as being bisexual which is apparently, like I said, not all that uncommon. Not in this day and age. Although I suspect that it has always been this way, just never quite so open. Certainly this is evident if one cares to do a little bit of historical research and look at women and social attitudes say from the eighteen-nineties and especially on through the nineteen-twenties and thirties, where this theme is quite dominant in literature and other testimonials to such. Of course there was always dealing with the negative image of being branded men-hating lesbians. Now I wonder just who came up with that one? Some jealous men, perhaps? Just an observation.
So why should I settle for a guy who is a slob, has the intellectual capacity of a carrot, stopped evolving any sort of a personality when he was about I the seventh grade, and thinks the high point of life is drinking lots of beer and watching football?
Why should I, or any woman really, settle for that, when some tenderness, romance and caring sex is the alternative with another woman? Is this bad? Is this wrong? I think not.
So yes, I am bisexual and loving every minute of it, and why not?
Over the last few years I was surprised to discover that I had a bisexual side and that apparently many women do. I think that this starts to become most common in women who are in their forties and divorced. They are old enough to know life, and are not eager to become involved in a serious male-female relationship, having done all of that before. And frankly, finding a guy when you are older who is not looking for a maid, and who has an ounce of romance to his soul, is like finding hens’ teeth.
So the alternative is, why not be with someone like yourself who shares your feelings and motivations? Being romantic, sex, and without a lot of strings attached.
And finding the opportunity is simple enough. You meet someone to be friends with, get together, you start talking about relationships, and before you know it you are both saying how nice it would be to meet someone, maybe just to have a satisfying casual relationship without a lot of complications, and the two of discover that there is an easy and rather attractive rapport. And from there, the diea of why not enjoy this together as a pleasing alternative emerges.
This is the way it has gone with five different female friends now. It was easy to have the desire to get naked and have some very lovely sex and closeness. I think that once you are open to that sort of thing, well the opportunities just present themselves. There is no seduction or playing coy little games, but that it is basically quite straightforward, which is very refreshing and nice.
This has been how it has been for me, anyway. I am no longer thinking that having bisexual feelings or attractions is something odd or to be embarrassed about, and yes, I have openly started thinking of myself as being bisexual which is apparently, like I said, not all that uncommon. Not in this day and age. Although I suspect that it has always been this way, just never quite so open. Certainly this is evident if one cares to do a little bit of historical research and look at women and social attitudes say from the eighteen-nineties and especially on through the nineteen-twenties and thirties, where this theme is quite dominant in literature and other testimonials to such. Of course there was always dealing with the negative image of being branded men-hating lesbians. Now I wonder just who came up with that one? Some jealous men, perhaps? Just an observation.
So why should I settle for a guy who is a slob, has the intellectual capacity of a carrot, stopped evolving any sort of a personality when he was about I the seventh grade, and thinks the high point of life is drinking lots of beer and watching football?
Why should I, or any woman really, settle for that, when some tenderness, romance and caring sex is the alternative with another woman? Is this bad? Is this wrong? I think not.
So yes, I am bisexual and loving every minute of it, and why not?
