My Wife Was An Escort

My wife Sharon is a short blonde with a nice body. She is about to turn 31. She's fit and has small firm breasts and nice shapely hips. Some days her ass is awesome others it's just nice. It depends on what she is wearing.

She's a reformed party girl. Lot's of partying in college and right of school. Then she got a job at my dad's company, we hit it off started dating and we got married the summer before Covid and we have a six month old. She has pretty much bounced back, not entirely but she still gets the looks and turns me on.

One thing about her though, when she drinks, this happened more when we were dating, she would revert to her party girl ways. Once she had a certain amount of booze in her, she wouldn't be able to stop and would get shitfaced and literally act like she was back in college.

She would dance around, make out with other girls, feel up their tits and ass, flash her tits, grab cocks. I would have to corral her to keep her under control. One night I had to step in because she kept showing guys her pussy. She would sit down, spread her legs and pull her shorts aside yelling whoooo. I stopped her, she'd promise to stop then I'd catch her again. I don't have a friend left who hasn't had their dick grabbed or her tits in their face and they've all seen her pussy.

A few times it got a little crazy. I caught her sitting on a stranger's lap once grinding her pussy on his leg trying to cum. She may or may not have blown a few guys, and I'm pretty sure some guys have fingered her. I know a few girls have.

When this happens, I usually confront her the next day, she apologizes but says its no big del she's just blowing of steam partying. I think it's too far. One night on the ride home we were fighting, and she made some comment about me being a prude and no fun. She let it out that she was a stripper in college and it's just nudity and a little teasing and I should just relax and enjoy.

The next day when I asked her about stripping she was very honest. Not only was she a stripper, she stripped in a bunch of different places, she was still doing it part time when we met and she admitted to doing "extras" for cash and then admitted to escorting occasionally with some girl from a club she worked at. She doesn't feel bad at all. She says she likes being nude, showing off and loves sex so it was natural for her to escort and strip. She admitted to fucking a couple hundred guys a year through the first half of her twenties and would still be goin if we hadn't met. She made it clear she isn't doing that now nor will she but also bought up swinging and sexual exploration. She wants to "drag me out of" my sexual shell.

I'm understanding about her life before we met but I want her to behave like the wife and mom she is now. I want nothing to do with swinging. and we are supposed to go to a Christmas party in a couple of weeks. This will be our first party in close to two years, I'm afraid she's going to over drink and end up playing college girl again. We're way to old for this stuff.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 24, 2021 at 1:26 PM

You sound like you have issues, not just her. Marriage is about compromises on both sides, not just her side. If you want things to last with this woman, then you need to accept her as she is, and who she was. It is all about trust. You may not be as comfortable as she is with her sexuality, so talk about it. Try to find a happy middle ground that allows you both to be yourselves but also support each other's needs. You may have to work at it, so don't push your boundaries too far too soon. And don't pretend or go farther than you can before you're ready!

If you can do this for yourself, then you can ask her to do the same. Just be ready to have honest conversations with each other and check in regularly (at times that are good for you both) .

Good luck and a joy the ride!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 24, 2021 at 2:07 PM

I don't know what to tell you dude, you married a freak and you expect her to act like a housewife

Its likely not gonna happen. Either get wiggy with the party and the sex or divorce her. Because constantly trying to tamp down this party freak ain't gonna work for long. She craves more, so you gotta figure out what YOU want.

Yeah you want her to act like an normal housewife but that ain't reality my friend.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 24, 2021 at 3:47 PM

There are a lot of trite sayings about your situation. The two most apropos are "Once a whore, always a whore," and "You can make a housewife a whore, but a whore will never make a faithful housewife." There seems to be some sort of behavioral switch in women that dictates they either be moms and faithful wives or whores and unfaithful sluts. We all know which side of the divide your wife was on.

The choices boil down to accepting that she'll stray, but trying to keep a limit of some sort on it and maintain her amateur status - though I fear that bird has flown the coop - 200 new cocks a year? Really? Or, and this is a heavy or, give her carte blanche when the itch hits and tell her she has to charge and give you the money. Drive in that if she's going to act like a whore, she has to keep her head, charge like one too, and give her pimp [you] the proceeds so you can save up for something YOU want; not her, not the family, YOU. Make it something expensive and selfish. If you're going to rent the equipment, you bloody well need to reap the rewards.

No matter what you decide, drill in that she has to play by professional rules - birth control and condoms always, bareback with her tricks never. Stress that you have no interest in raising someone else's bastard.

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