Sir,
I regret to inform you that you are probably a member of the upper class. I say "regret" because unless you can find a way to pay to be around people such as youself then you are doomed to live around these dirtbags forever. People with expectations such as yours protect themselves by building large fortresses on large lots in select and exclusive neighborhoods. Unless you can find your way into this exclusive segment of society you'll find your life will not change. You are doomed to live around what I call "Members of the Public." My guess is fewer than 5% of the population has any idea why you find the things you mention in your post troublesome. In fact, they likely find your need for a quality environment odd! Have you heard any of the following comments:
"People have got to live."
"Just ignore it."
"What's the matter, don't you like [something trashy]"
"If you wanted peace and quiet why'd you move into an apartment"
"Everybody in the building thinks you're an asshole"
If so, you, my friend, are living with Members of the Public. These people like things to be sort of, well, crappy. And they will fight you every step of the way to keep the building and grounds as crappy as possible. Your apartment will NEVER be nice. ****THEY WON'T ALLOW IT !!!! ****
Your only hope is to study like hell, get yourself into a very high paying occupation and spend the 3 or 10 million dollars for a house in a neighborhood of other people like yourself. I am totally serious. While you're young you must realize that only large amounts of money can save you from the 95% of the population who are the Members of the Public. Good luck to you.