Cheating Ex Has A Bad Relationship With His Parents, I Made It Worse

Had a boyfriend break my heart, I was even considering proposing but I walked in on him cheating, turns out it was for months. Apparently he has a kink for college wrestlers and since I was a swimmer I wasn't satisfying him enough.

He comes from a conservative family, his parents didn't disown him but they're super passive aggressive, they hate that he's gay. They blame him for messing up their lives because all their conservative friends think they're bad parents because they have a gay son.

My revenge was seducing his little brother.

18 at the time, couple months left of high school, football player, wrestler, prospects for prestigious colleges, all-american boy. When my ex came out his parents basically immediately decided his little brother was the only one who mattered. He wouldn't reflect badly on them like my ex does because he was straight, would get a wife, have a "real" family, all the things normal people are supposed to do.

Not anymore!

The revenge part is that their parents blame my ex for corrupting him with his perversions, convincing him to follow the gay agenda, all the usual stuff c***********s think about how sexuality works. I did it on purpose, their parents are morons and I knew they think people just decide to be gay one day, and I knew their fragile self image would make them think my ex is at fault instead of blaming me, because they see him as letting them down. They absolutely won't let him live it down, every time he sees them they say really passive aggressive things about what he "did" to his little brother.

They can't pretend it was an isolated incident because seducing my ex's little brother turned into dating my ex's little brother and we've been together a little over a year. A couple months back we gave each other totally cheesy (but manly, I swear) necklaces and I haven't taken mine off once yet. Looking back I'm not sure how I thought my revenge plan was going to work otherwise, as if my ex's little brother would just jump to tell his parents about a casual one night stand with me if it hadn't turned serious.

I wasn't there for it but at one point my (current) boyfriend stood up to their parents more than my ex does when he got annoyed with their bs. He told them they could pretend otherwise all they want but the reality is he still has another man inside him a couple times a week (we both have high libidos but we switch.) Now they think it's my ex's fault that he enjoys bottoming. I'm betting that, whether they realized it or not, the idea that he could have been an exclusive top was the last shred of dignity they were holding onto.

Thinking about proposing again...

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