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Car Accident Turned Friend Gay I Guess

I was in a very bad car accident, was driving and got t-boned by a drunk driver. Many injuries to both legs, back shoulder and arms. I spent 22 days on the hospital with 2 operations to fix my knees and back. I was in an upper body cast which included left shoulder, two legs cast and left wrist. Then the hospital sent me home. I wasn’t able to take care of myself much at all but my mom was able to take a week off to help get me somewhat mobile in a wheelchair but very painfully. She left town and I realized I couldn’t cook or anything. I called my best friend David if he could help me some. He came right over. He cleaned up my apartment and we ordered pizza. I asked David who was about my build be a foot shorter if he could help me get on the couch. He said yes and helped me stand up and shuffle to the couch. I was still wearing the hospital gown I work home but cause I can’t put on pants or a shirt. I noticed David look down at my gown didn’t think anything of it. We are pizza and watched TV. I needed to pee so I told David to get me up so I could go to the bathroom. He wasn’t strong enough to lift me so he said he would be right back and came in with a large pot. I asked what was that for? He said to pee into. I said I am needing gravity to help me so that isn’t going to work out well. He said watch this, he helps roll me to my side near the couch edge. Tada! He says there you go. I had rolled onto my gown. Davis said hold on and pulled out my gown and exposed my dick to both of us. He held to pot up and tells me to let it go. I could t because of the embarrassment of David looking at my penis. David says you know I have one of those so no need to be concerned. I agreed and just relaxed and let it go. I peed like a horse! As I finished David reaches up and shakes my penis for me, and added like a tug or two for good measure. It felt good. He said done, and I said don’t think so. He shakes my penis three times and gives a couple of tugs. I am getting an erection! I yell I am good! David pulls the gown down and goes empty the pot in the bathroom. The next day David shows up with breakfast from McDs. But I said I really need to pee and you left the pot in the bathroom and me on the couch. He said I will be right back. He sits on the floor and places the pot at the edge of the couch but I tell him I had better to it this time because of morning situations, I had a hard-on. He said don’t worry about it and lifts my gown and he went to a shocked look on his face. David gasps and said you have a large problem actually and laughs, I had just an above average length of a 7 inches but I was thicker than some because a couple girls let me know. He reaches and I said wait! Seriously I have to pee really bad! David said I am going to aim it into the pot silly! And adds to stop acting like a baby. He grabs me firmly and points me into the pot. I let go and pee a hard stream in the pot. I secretly couldn’t wait for the shake because I haven’t dated for awhile and could feel it. There comes the shake and tug. Davis says good, not yet I say, three more shakes but like 5 tugs. Not done yet David. Shakes and 10 tugs. I am getting hard again. I say I am good loudly. I am not having a man give me an erect ion. We eat breakfast. Knock at the door, a home nurse says she is here to check bandages and check on his well being. She immediately says you need a bath real bad. I said how? She said sponge baths only and she isn’t that kind of nurse. So David got the hot soapy water and a wash cloth for me. He said he would go to the store while I cleaned myself up. So I was alone with a hot washcloth and four exposed fingers on one hand, the other fingers completely bandages. I can do this so I am rubbing my now erection with the washcloth as the door opens. David forgot his keys. We are both looking at each other like there isn’t a hard cock with a washcloth kind of covering it up. David walks over and says close your eyes. What? He said close your eyes quickly. I did, the washcloth came off and a warm hand started to jack me off quickly. I got harder and I needed the release in a bad way. I am going to let this happen, then the sensations changes, I feel his mouth and going deeper into his mouth, feels great and I know I am getting sucked off good! What the! Too late I can’t stop it and I am about to cum. I yell stop I am cunning stop! But David takes me deeper in his mouth and I came hard hard hard! He gagged some and kept going for a few more seconds. I open my eyes. David was smiling but concerned. I said to David I appreciate what he did but I am str8. He said he had only given head once as a teenager but liked it and never did it again. I said wow you were really good. Probably better then I remember. He smiled. Next time he will do better, he says.
I said I can’t let him do that anymore. He cleaned me up and sponge bathed me while I helped. Normal day but that night I had to poop and couldn’t get back off the couch, called David. He finally get me up with towels and pillows and get me in the wheelchair. I was able to get on the toilet using the tub and David’s shoulder. I wiped the best I could, finally getting myself clean. I yelled so David could get me to the wheelchair. As I was balancing, David said give me the gown, it needs washed badly. I did so. I was standing there naked but was okay with it. Off to the couch I go. On the couch naked and exposed but comfortable with it since I had my balls emptied. David says from the bathroom if I was ready for my sponge bath, I said yes and I am closing my eyes! Not realizing what I just said. He said good for me too! He picks up my growing dick and right to sucking me hard. He licking my shaft and then balls and starts taking me deep in his mouth. I wasn’t going to last long, faster and deeper and balls bing massaged caused me to come in his mouth. He said open your eyes now. I do and my dick was still in his mouth. He said now you watch me jack off on you and I did. He was on his knees and jacked off and came on my limp dick. He licked it off. Skips a couple of days of the same thing, and always improving his skills. This time he says close my eyes and he straddled me on the couch. He says don’t open your eyes. He is rubbing lube on my dick. I feel pressure and feel the pop and tightness. I know I have just went in his butthole. He slowly lowers down and it is tight and good. He is moving up and down slowly but a little more each time. Halfway in and I I am going to explode! I tell him I am going to come real fast. David pushes down harder and I came in his butt. We stay there for a few minutes. It was good. We did it again for a few more days until
I was all the way inside of his butt and he fucking me up and down. When my led t hand was unwrapped, I jacked him off while he sucked me. The when my knees cast s were off I would sit on the chair with him doggy style riding me dick. Sucked in the morning and butt fucking at night for weeks. Part 2 if you want to hear it

My First Sugar Daddy

I got into the thought of having a sugar daddy a few years ago, kinda a turn on for me. Then 7 months ago I found one.

He’s a great guy, very well off, good looking, excellent body and a great cock.

For the first 4 months it was just having dinner with him, he likes to wait before clothes come off. Occasionally I’d see him in his white Calvin Klein briefs at his house but that was as naked as I had seen him.

Till the fifth month came around and he invited me over one night. I got to his house then we went out to get something to eat. Back at his place afterwards he suggested we get in the hot tub. Little did I know we’d be getting naked! He removed all his clothes then turned around and slid his briefs down right in front of me. His nice thick hairy dick was right in front of me.

I promptly removed all my clothes and got in the hot tub with him. We sat in it for a while, he has a tv outside so we watched some Netflix. He moved over close to me and I could feel his hard dick against my leg. I was already hard. He went in for a kiss then he got out of the hot tub to grab some towels. Still fully erect he came back with towels.

I got out and we made our way to his bedroom. I was an anal virgin up to that point, I only had sucked dick. So that night he popped my anal cherry. He knew I was a virgin and he definitely enjoyed that. He came inside me then we showered and laid in his bed till we fell asleep.

We’ve had regular sex since then. But my issue is, it always hurt when he first penetrates me. Is there a way to stop that from happening? His dick is thick but not excessively thick. He’s 6” long. I hate not being able to have sex a few nights in a row when I’m at his house because my butthole is sore. He’s understanding about it but I’d love to have sex with him all weekend instead of just Friday night.

Side note, he fucked me last Saturday before we went out and his cum was leaking into my tighty whities all night. Was hot! I want to do that more

Now What?

I'm a fit 50 year old guy and I never thought I'd be confessing this.

I love sucking dick and getting fucked in the ass.

That's my confession. But how did I get here and what do I do now?

It was a couple of months ago. I was feeling down because of my recent break up with who I thought was the ideal woman for me. I won't get into all the details, but I was pretty down so I took a trip to visit a friend in Florida. While I'm there he has an emergency and has to go out of town for the day and maybe the next. But days stay as long as I want.

I went to a bar that night and had some food, and a few drinks, then a few more and so on. This guy who was sitting next to me started chatting me up. He was a tall black guy, very well dressed and well spoken. After telling him my story of wow he seemed genuinely concerned and was very understanding. It might have been an hour or so of talking and a few more drinks, and I realized I had enough to drink and paid my tab and got up to leave. I wasn't in any condition to drive. So I'm about to call a Uber and he comes out of the bar and says, no worries he can drive me home. I thanked him, stagger to his car and off we go.

While we're driving to my friend's house I made some comment about giving up on women and maybe I should switch teams. He said really? I said yeah what the fuck. I can't seem to find the right woman so maybe she doesn't exist. He then just blurts out, why not try sucking his dick to see if I like it. Sure! Whip it out and I'll suck it right fucking now! He unzips his fly and was already half erect and huge! I mean porn star huge. It was twice as far as mine and really fucking long. So I just started sucking on it. I liked it. I liked the way it felt in my mouth and the taste was good too. I just did what I know I like and took as much in my mouth as I could. But I have a gag reflex, I found out. But didn't let it stop me. I was really liking it. I had my hand on he base of his dick and still couldn't get my mouth down as far as my hand. What a magnificent cock this guy had. I can't tell you how long I sucked it. But a few songs played on the radio before he came in my mouth. OMG I loved it. It was hard to swallow it all and I gagged a little but I did lick up all I missed.

He said you never sucked a dick before? No sir. Ain't never been with a man before. He said I was born to do it, and I should try getting fucked. I said, know anyone who'd want to fuck a middle aged white guy. He laughed and said definitely.

We got to my friend's house and went straight into the bedroom, got naked and I went to the bathroom to pee and see if there was anything I could use for lube. I couldn't find anything but he said look for some hair conditioner, that shoukd work. Found some and put a bunch in my ass. Brought him the bottle and he put some on his hard dick.
I got on my hands and knees and waited. He was very gentle inserting a finger in my ass then another. Very slowly moving them in and out. He stroked my hard cock while doing this. It felt pretty nice I thought. To make this long ass story shorter
... I'll just say after quite a while of him being patient and having me push back on his dick, I'd slowly got in. I thought my ass was ripping apart at first and pulled off of him a few times. Fortunately he was patient. Eventually it would slide in pretty easily and felt pretty good. It no longer hurt. So I said ok you can fuck me now and he started pushing it in a little deeper, then back off then deeper and back. I was loving it. My legs were shaking as he started fucking me for real. I loved it. Yeah go ahead and fuck me as hard as you want. Lord, I can tell you that the next few minutes were amazing. He pumped that huge thing in and out of me faster and faster and I was cumming with every thrust. I didn't even touch my dick and I was cumming. It was heavenly, especially when he blew his load in my ass.
I was hooked. We fell asleep with his cock still buried in my ass. When I woke up I went to the bathroom and emptied my bladder and bowels out and got in the shower. He came in after and used the toilet and asked to join me in the shower. We cleaned each other and got out. I sucked him hard again and was amazed at how big he was and couldn't believe that thing was in my ass.
We fucked 6 more times that next day and night. Trend he had to go back home. I never got his number. It I wish I had. I'm back home now craving a big cock to suck and get fucked by. I think I'll stick with dick for a while at least. I hope I can find another big one. I know I'm hooked.

My First Mm Encounter

When I got laid the first time, it was with an older woman who taught me well. She was late 30's,divorced and I was 16. It went on for about 3 years, during which time she helped me learn about sex, let me have oral, anal, vaginal, rubbing, hand and everything possible. She even helped me seduce a couple of girls from school. She loved hearing all about them, even watching secret recordings of them nude sucking and fucking. She would have me watch porn with her, and it was mostly mfm with some bi action between the males. I didn't pay it any attention, but she would ask me if I liked it, but I had no interests in guys.

I've had 7 women-girls so far in my life and I really loved fucking them, eating them, even got three butt virgins and two that were pussy virgins too. She loved seeing and hearing those stories. We parted, and I went away to college. Moved away for a job, though I do still see the older woman and one of my old girlfriends when I go back home. I still fuck them both. Still I've never had any interest in mm sex. Even when she would bring it up to me, sometimes putting on gay porn, I think I always pictured me as the "top".

It was a long time since I had sex, and I am on the west coast on business for another 7 weeks. I went to a club, which I found was a gay club. I just wanted a couple of drinks and didn't care. This one guy at the bar was talking with me, and with more drinks, he got more and more friendly, even copping a feel of my crotch, and I let him. I remember thinking, what the hell, I like fucking womens ass, so whats the difference? I wanted to fuck someone and after this long, make that anyone. He was young, good looking and didn't look to be really hairy or anything. He was indeed smooth bodied. I even danced with him in front of everyone. He moved behind me and was rubbing against my ass with an obviously very hard and big cock. Something came over me then, I wanted to have sex, but I knew I'd be the one getting fucked.

by the next morning, spending the night with him I'd been fucked 3 times by him. He did have a long cock but it was thankfully thin and he was very good and easing me into it. I sucked him hard and he took my ass. He did suck me once swallowing my big load, and once he had me jack myself while he was fucking me missionary. My legs wrapped around his hips he and I came at the same time.

I never thought that I'd have gay sex, and if I did I NEVER thought I'd be the one getting fucked. I don't know if I'm going to keep it up. He said that I could fuck him if I wanted. I'm still thinking.

Discovery

I am thirty-two and have been divorced for the last couple of years. With the way everything has been I was feeling bored and I started going to an adult movie theater.
That was quite an eye opneer for me, as I was surprised by the amount of sex that went on there. Well, I became adventurous and it was fun jacking off in front of other guys and watching them do things. Then I did some mutual masturbation which was great.
Finally this guy wanted me to fuck him, so I slipped on a rubber and did it in his butt. The first time I was very self-conscious having other guys watch me do this to a guty. Then, after I managed to do this a few times I got to enjoy being sort of an exhibitionist fucking another guy.
Finally I let several guys butt fuck me and that was quite an experience.
I never realized that I had any sort of a gay side, but now that I have I am thoroughly enjoying this pleasure.

Homeless And Cold

Back when I was twenty years old, through circumstances I couldn't control, I ended up homeless.
At first I slept on a mates couch, but I knew I was disturbing his wife and kids, so I moved on. Eventually I ended up on the streets.
Very cold, hungry and a little scared (Believe me there are some nasty people out there) I began offering my mouth to men who wanted oral relief at a park I used to sleep in.

They'd pay me five pounds for a suck and spit. Or ten pounds if I swallowed their cum. And to some of the mainly older wealthy men I sucked off, ten pounds was absolutely nothing.
After a couple of months with the weather absolutely freezing cold, I said yes to an older man in his late forties, who wanted me to give up my anal cherry to him.
It was the first time I'd been fully fed, showered, warm and feeling safe in months.
He lived on his own during the week in a flat, then travelled back up to his family over the weekend, when his working week was done.
I'd lost weight and looked gaunt, but he liked skinny younger guys and over a whole week, he taught me how to really enjoy being fucked.

The first time, he didn't actually fuck me, but in bed together had me suck him off twice.
Both times having me swallow his cum. It was the morning when he woke up with a hard on that I lost my anal virginity.
He took his time sucking on my cock, then rimming me until I actually wanted to feel his cock inside of me.
It was a strange feeling having his dick enter me. There was pain, but also a very real feeling of pleasure under the pain.
I was lay on my stomach with his cock gradually getting deeper and fucking me harder, when like flicking a light switch, all the pain went and I began to really enjoy him fucking my arse.
As soon as heard me moaning with pleasure, he lay right over me, turned my head and we kissed.
By then I was fully his and responded by kissing him back. And over the next hour, we sucked and fucked, with him cumming twice deep inside my arsehole.
He was late for work, but it didn't matter to him. Telling me to stay and have some food, he ultimately was trusting me.

I did stay and welcomed him home by being lay over his coffee table naked and lubed.
He fucked me raw and hard. Much harder than earlier that morning. And I loved it. For the first time in my life I orgasmed without touching my cock, then took every drop of his spunk inside my arsehole.
Just as I was about to get up, he held me down, pulled my arse cheeks apart and started to lick, tongue and suck out his own cum from my freshly fucked hole.
When he was satisfied, he pulled me onto the couch with him, where we kissed for a long time.
That fuck more than anything cemented our brief relationship and I became his week long sex partner until I received a message via a well known charity.

My lover, because that's what we'd become, helped me back into society and even helped me through my grief, because that was my news, my mother had died.
Eventually I moved out, but not because he didn't want me there. It was to do with him pushing me to improve my life and stand on my own two feet.
And that's exactly what I did.
I'm now a successful young businessman. I have two employees and a benefactor who supports me from afar.
I'm back in my home town living in a home I've bought and paid for, and I now live with a wonderful fifty two year old gay alpha man. However every once in a while we're joined by a wonderful, kind and brilliant man, who I figure saved my life.
They both enjoy me together and I'm more than thrilled to be used by them over and over again.

Brother In Law

My sister married Liam two years ago. She's eight years older than me and has always been a bully.
Three months ago they stayed at our house as there's was being replastered throughout.
Liam took some days off work, but my sister who's a career woman, didn't.
He's always known I like and have sex with both sexes, so it wasn't a surprise to him when I offered to suck his cock.
I basically caught him wanking in the shower. Whether he meant to leave the bathroom door open or not, I don't know. What I do know, is my sisters husband has a big cock and he loves having it sucked.
That morning with only us two in the house, I gave my brother in law a blow job in the shower, before he fucked me stood up leaning against the wall.
I'd not had anal sex for some time, so his really thick cock hurt somewhat at first. But once he got over the fact he was fucking a guys arsehole, he really began to pound my fuckhole.
I relaxed and began to enjoy him thrusting into me. That's when he started to kiss my neck and right ear. It was all extremely sexual, but also incredibly naughty, it being my sisters husband.
When Liam came up my arse, I told him to do it. I wanted his seed inside of me. I wanted my sisters husband's essence filling my hole, and not hers.
We dried off a little but were still wet when we went into the guest bedroom, my old room, to have more sex.
It was then we got into a sixty nine and my brother in law tasted and felt cock in his mouth for the first time.
Putting me on my back, he lifted my legs and slid his gorgeous cock back into my arse. We fucked and kissed in the missionary position for such a wonderfully long time. And when he came inside me again, he said in my ear "I want to carry on having sex with you from now on".
Two years on from our first fuck, my brother in law and I now have sex in their home.
He works from home now after the pandemic and my sister has become a manager at work. It suits her personality perfectly, as she still likes to bully people.
She'd freak out if she ever found out her husband is fucking me two or three times a week. It would challenge all her preconceptions of control, that she thinks she has.
The amazing thing is, that's precisely what might happen soon. Liam has more and more frequently asked me to move away with him. He tells me he's in love with me and wants us to be together as a couple.
I was doubtful at first, but now know he's serious. And what's more, is I'm in love with him too.
We both know it would hurt my sister, but then she'd just bully someone else to get over it. That and spend more time on her career.

My First Gay Experience

I met a stranger and let him cum inside me... I was curious to know what it felt like to have a cock in my ass. As a male who's always been straight I never thought I'd wonder until an ex girlfriend shoved 2fingers in my ass everytime she'd blow me. Eventually I worked up the courage to go onto grindr and started talking with guys. I found this guy and agreed to suck him off so I went over to his house and we had a few drinks in his backyard. Eventually after a few drinks he asked if I've ever tasted a cock before. Shocked on how forward he was I told him I never had, as he slowly looked down at his semi hard cock bouncing out of his shorts zipper. I leaned in and grabbed his shaft with my hand stroking him slowly I asked, is this OK? Responding he firmly told me put your mouth on it.i could barley believe I was stroking another man he was thicker than I was and atleast 7inches I got up from my chair and pulled my shirt off throwing it on the table. Looking at me with a slight smirk. You're not wearing any underwear are you? I couldn't help but blush unzipping my shorts to reveal to him my already erect cock. Grabbing my ass cheek he pulls me closer and begins to suck my cock. I'm amazed how much it turned me on. Eventually nudging me to my knees under his patio table I slowly put his thick cock in my mouth. I couldn't stop thinking about how my life made it to me sucking a stranger completely naked broad daylight in his backyard. I speed up my tempo as I run my lips up and down his shaft. His head hits the back of my throat gagging as he slides it out he chuckles grabbing me head and starts to fuck my face I let out a gasp as balls slam against my chin. Grabbing his thighs to slow his thrusting he starts to moan. My saliva drenching his cock and running down my chest his cock throbbed releasing his cum in to my mouth I moaned as it began to fill without thinking I quickly swallowed and jumped up with embarrassment he congratulated me telling me how good it was getting up then invited me inside his house I grabbed my clothes and walked in still naked, dripping with my cum on me. He told me to bend over his bed I eagerly prepped my ass with lube. Quietly he says I bet you'll love getting fucked sliding his cock against my ass I couldn't believe how warm his cock felt as he pushed into my ass.with a pop his head penetrating my asshole he slowly shoves it all the way in. I moan and start cumming uncontrollably my ass squeezing his thick cock everytime I shoot he starts thrusting grabbing me by my waist pulling me in his cock starts slamming into me I let out a noise my asshole twitching around his cock as he moans again shooting again into my ass. Quickly he pulls out and cum drips down my leg smacking my ass I quickly got dressed no time to clean myself up I run to my car embarrassed and feeling dirty but so damn turned on I drive home wondering if I was meant to be a cumdump.

Gay Question

I have more of a question to older or experienced gay bottoms out there. I am a 29 year old gay man who came out late. I had several encounters with men and two relationships with men where I was both top and bottom. I am now in a relationship with a man that appears to be going long term as we both have expressed our love for each other. I am almost exclusively bottom in this relationship which I love and he is certainly happy. The only issue, and I guess it’s a good problem to have, is he has a very big penis. Very thick and very long and he loves to fuck me. I like it too very much but he had to be very gentle for sometime as I have gotten adjusted to it. We are much more comfortable now and the sex has become more aggressive and I have to continue to warn him to be careful which he is very good about. As an example we had sex one morning and even after I clean myself well through most of my workday I could still feel him leaking out of me and my underwear were damp all day. I am not complaining and I love him and he will continue to be concerned for my comfort I’m sure. My question for any of those with much more experience is this. Should I have concerns for the long term health of my rectum and bowels if we do this for years? I already feel that my butthole has stretched or takes him easier. Is that all a good thing? Thank you for any responses.

From One Night Stands I Meet A Guy And It's Not For Real

Basically after 21 years of marriage I told my wife I was bored with her. Just not interested any more. I moved out, gave her the house and the car keys and found a place to live. It had been a good while since I lived alone and I got bored being alone. I started looking at dating sites and came across CL and the couple of times I met up with women it just didn't work out. Then, by chance I agreed to meet up with a man.

He was experienced, looking for a purely sexual thing, he liked men my age and he was quick to suck my cock and just as quick to let me know he was a top and my smooth ass really turned him on. He rimmed me while jerking on my cock and after getting a condom on and lubing me up he got on, me on my hands and knees, he went for broke and got his cock all the way in my ass and told me he liked it that way and he soon came and pulled out. After removing the condom I sucked his still sensitive but warm and wet with cum cock. It was fast and furious and I had discovered something I liked and turned me on.

CL was my go to place for a long time, until it went away. I tried several other male dating sites, but I was looking for something casual, in and out and back to my apartment. No strings attached. I went out a couple of times but both times these men wanted to get to know me, and all I wanted was to for them to get on and give me a good fuck and I was on my way home to masturbate alone.

I signed up for a tour to Thailand, I was interested in finding out about the tranny boys there. I had heard, via a non reputable source, that you could get a haircut and a tranny would suck your cock at the same time. In Bangkok I stayed at a medium priced hotel and asked around with the bellhop staff and I went to this place where the tranny boys showed off. At the bar I was approached by an Australian man, he said he was merchant marine and he came to Bangkok often. A tall man with a beard, a permanent tan, a big beer belly and a smile and we hit it off and left the trannies alone and went back to his hotel for a suck and fuck.

He was big, much bigger than normal, and thick and getting his cock in my barely lubed ass hurt like hell, but he managed and left me with a big load from down under. We hung out together after that, bought some better lube and I let him fuck me bareback. I was just happy to get a load, the more the better. His cock was something to admire and I sucked him as much as I could and he liked me holding his cock while we got a drink overlooking the pool down below. Kissing and hugging was part of the game. It was a week of nonstop sex and he knew his way around Bangkok and we went to several local bars and restaurants. I felt like a new bride on her honeymoon, after dinner and drinks back to his hotel and his big fat cock drilling me, and his big hand jerking me off.

After I got back his email address bounced back and so did his phone number (I figured out he had a temp number while in Bangkok). During the week there I picked up most of the tabs for food and drink and I had checked out of my hotel and paid the tab at his. It took a while for me to realize he was at the tranny place to pick up mark and he would get a fun filled all expense vacation.

The shutdown last year made it hard to get out, the internet is filled with unsavory types and it's a gamble weeding out the wheat from the chaff. I know a man who knows a man who has made the arrangements for me to hook up. But it's not he same, I can't seem to get past the man in Bangkok.