Were you outed and didn't want to be? Need to talk about your very first time or encounter? Have a question about technique or about safe sex? Whatever it is, lay it all out here. This category is specifically for lesbian stories.

Our 'man' Is Back With Us And We Intend To Keep Him

Early in college my roommate and me had sex with a graduating senior. He graduated and went his way, we continued together and moved to the DFW area to teach in elementary schools. One day, we were twenty five by then and had decided we would get married when he called. The reunion was awkward, he had been married and divorced and we had moved on.

But there are things you don't understand and just like that he was in bed with us and had sex with us. He moved to our part of the world and we reverted to our college days living with him, and having sex with him. We, my wife and me, went ahead and went through with our marriage plans. He was our 'best man'.

As married women living under the roof of a man has placed us in the position of most women whose lifestyle depends on his earning power. Teachers don't make enough to afford a house. But that is an excuse, we were abandoned when he left us after graduation, he returned to us and we are going to do what we need to do to keep him from wandering off again. His place is with us, where we can show him why we are his best choice around.

  • It Took All Of College Before We Found Out We Were Sexually Attracted

    My name is Wendy, named after the Peter Pan character. I grew up just about as normal as can be expected. I went to college and lived with another girl the four years I was there, we are best friends, and promised to be each other's Maids of Honor. But no Prince Charming has come around, so we are Maids in waiting.

    We live in the Southwest, where there are miles and miles between cities. We drive large cars and we routinely drive long distances. So when we decided to make a car trip to Florida it wasn't a bother, take turns driving. We got as far as El Paso and checked into a motel by the road, the cheaper the better. The place was icky to girls, we thought to ourselves how many truckdrivers had slept in that bed. How many hookers.

    We went to eat at an Olive Garden and then back to the motel. It was boring, but we were tired, we tried watching TV but that was a dud. I don't know why, because I really don't. She was standing in front of the TV, her top illuminated by the TV light, her breasts hanging unsupported by a bra. I got behind her and cupped her breasts in my hands. It wasn't enough to cup her breasts, it was necessary to feel her up. Four years of college together, and in that cheap motel in El Paso we went all the way. Maybe Prince Charming wasn't coming.

    We haven't slept in separate beds since that night. She waits for me to make love to her, to take the initiative. She waits to have her top ripped off, her legs spread open. She wants to be made love to. To be brought to an orgasm.

    She's sweet to me, always has been. We live in an apartment now that has an extra room if we need it. We buy panties on the internet that we would never be caught alive in. We watch clips of women doing things to each other, although we prefer to watch women being penetrated by a man to get our libidos going. We went to a couple of known places where we live, where the rumor is that 'girls' hang out. I can't say that I ever see myself as one of those women. I could never be that forward and behave like that.

    No, we are just ourselves, we love to wear dresses and make up. I love her most when she is a Princess in heels and I love to get on my knees and pull her panties off. We groom ourselves now that we are spending a good amount of time 'rooting' around in that nasty stuff.

    If by chance you catch us at the airport, or at Olive Garden in El Paso, your best guess is that we are sisters.

    A Fulltime Housewife And Mother I'm Just Now Embracing My Lesbian Life

    As I note in my profile I am a 30 year old lesbian. I am currently married to a man and I expect I will remain married. I have two children. My husband knows I am a lesbian, but don't think he is fine with that.

    I met him in college. My mother remarried to a man of the cloth, a Minister with a large congregation. Anti LGBT etc. to the hilt. It's his crusade to eliminate the scourge that is afflicting society. Women, particularly women, have abandoned their God given role of being mothers and housewives.

    So look at me. I escaped his wrath by getting married in college and found myself in the marital bed with a man between my legs. Boy did I miss pussy. I tried playing around, meeting this other girl at her place, but I felt so guilty about it I couldn't have an orgasm. I started setting the table and serving him dinner like the good wife that I am.

    My husband was raised in a home with a stay at home mother and housewife, two sisters. He is used to being surrounded by women, who cater to him. Why should he change? Now he has a wife and expects her to cater to him, night and day. He expects sex, wide open legged sex with a smile. He likes to hear 'just fuck me' and things like that. Oh, and in spite of having sisters he still thinks that naked women are weird. He gets embarrassed if he catches me in the shower, 'sorry' is what he says, I didn't mean to walk in. Look at me naked, just look and get it out of your system, I yell to myself. I'm a woman, not some creature from the green lagoon.

    Boy, I graduated on a Thursday and Friday I was being fucked to get pregnant. He wanted a boy first and then a girl. He got a girl first and then a boy. Sorry, it's your sperm that decides. If I could only put it into words, he wants so much physical affection, and he wants all day and all night focus on him and the children and running the home. He wants his mother. I know. My mother is like that.

    I sat down one day, the children were in bed, and I told him I wanted to talk with him about my lesbian feelings. To listen to me and hear me out. I explained in clear words and expressions that my needs included being very close with a woman. Just like he had friends, I needed a woman friend, who is far more than just a friend. Someone who I can trade sweet longing kisses with, someone with whom I can take a long hot bath with, someone with whom I could rub my face in her tits, someone whom I could lay with my face in her pussy. I was perpetually horny by then, for a woman's touch. He listened, and his one comment was 'you would put your face between a woman's legs?' Yes, dear, I want to eat pussy.

    He doesn't understand how I can want that, he really doesn't, it don't compute. My husband has never been an oral sexual partner with me. He fucks. Boy does he fuck. Licking a wet pussy isn't in his ballpark.

    I've had to chart my own path, I am close with a woman friend. She is divorced and has a son the same age as my son, that's how we met. She got divorced because she found out she is a lesbian after getting married. We have held hands, touched on the shoulder, laid a head on a breast, cupped a breast and sucked quietly on a nipple, we have let a hand caress the outline of our pussies, a finger find the hole between our legs. We have kissed, in that sort of kiss where times stops and all you want to do is rub your naked tits together. I have and she has, gone down on each other, and licked the sweet nectar that makes us women.

    My husband doesn't want to hear about it, so I don't tell him. He doesn't want to understand. I am the stay at home mother, full time housewife, I set the table and change the beds. My mother taught me and I am teaching my daughter. These are life skills. I'm thirty, who would have thought I would be here, in this house, with two children and a husband. I was sure I would end up in a crazy relationship with some sex starved lesbian.

  • Lesbians With A Husband In Our Lives

    Just a short note. I am a lesbian and so is my partner. We met in high school and have been together since we ran away at eighteen. My partner was r**ed at nineteen and she had a girl, a man took me at twenty five and I have girl too. The father of my daughter took over and set himself up as the man of the house, and never allowed either one of us to wear pants.

    We are totally lesbian, everyone around us knows it. We are the couple. Our daughters know it. That we have a man living with us isn't because we invited him in. He shoved his way in, he took me for a woman, imposed his will on us and gets his sex from me. He works as a mechanic and part time he drives a big rig for a trucking company when they are short of drivers. Three days out of town and I know I'm in for three days of him getting even.

    I learned from my mother, give him sex and he will shut up. Cook him dinner and he will shut up. Keep his underpants and socks clean and he will shut up. In our house there is one man of the house. We know it, our daughters know it, our neighbors know it. Did we want a man? No. But we have one and he ain't leaving, he has it too good here.

    The best sex my wife and I have is after he rolls off and goes to sleep, and I'm all hot and hungry for her, and she is hot waiting for her turn.

    How Could I Have Never Known

    In a break from tradition and due to a work scheduling issue, my husband needed to work last night. It wasn’t a big deal as duty calls and yesterday was triple time for him…times 9 hours! I decided to head to my friend Corrine’s house for some girl time.

    When I got there, it was just her. Her kids were all out with friends so it was just us. One thing led to another and out came the wine, actually a couple bottles of wine came out. About an hour later, we are in the kitchen making a snack, she grabs my hips and kisses me. I was completely shocked! I said to her, what was that? She responded with I have wanted to do that since high school. I took a minute to work through that, while she just stood there holding my hand and smiling.

    As I started to talk, she moved in an kissed me again, but this time my mouth opened involuntarily. The kissing in the kitchen lasted about ten minutes and then she led me to her bedroom. When we got in there, we stripped each other and found her bed.

    As you can guess, this was my first female female experience and I am still working through it. But the real question I have is how I did not know…she is my best friend! Ugh!

  • Sworn To Each Other, She Was Married As Arranged By Her Parents

    My family is very Catholic, and my sister and I went K-12 to Sacred Heart all girls academy. My sister was four years older, so we had little to do with each other. In my class was a girl by the name of Gracie, she was the most beautiful girl anyone, ever, had ever seen. We were friends from K onwards. As we got up to Junior High we had become 'very' good friends, enjoying the fruits we had been blessed with.

    In the tenth grade we were eligible to go to a retreat, owned by the school, in the country. Stories abounded about all the crazy things girls did on these retreats and we wanted to go badly. My father wasn't so much opposed as not wanting to drive me there, about three hours, much of it on dirt roads. But I begged and my father talked to Gracie's father and he told her father that my cousin, same age as my sister, would be driving us out there in our 4X4 Wagoneer, well protected.

    We left early enough, the drive on the highway was uneventful. Once we got on the dirt road it got dusty and awful. We had to keep the windows cracked because in those days air conditioning wasn't part of the Wagoneer, which was used primarily for outdoor hunting and fishing. I sat beside my cousin up front and Gracie sat in the back seat. We stopped a couple of hours after we left for a nature call. My cousin, stood on the side of the road and unzipped and peed right there in front of us. He zipped up and said 'come on' and took me by the hand and told me to squat and pee where he could see me. My bare butt for the whole world to see, holding onto his pant leg, I peed in the dirt. Gracie was next, pull her pants down, expose her naked butt to the world, squat and pee with her legs open, holding my cousin's hand for balance. Embarrassing doesn't come close to describing what we felt right then. Up to then, no boy ever had seen our precious pussies.

    When we got to the retreat, he inspected our rooms, and the dining hall and walked the grounds to ensure we were safe. Nuns were the only adults there, and another 30 girls. He left, but not before exacting payment, a kiss from each of us, on the lips. "I kiss you, you kiss back, OK?" Now we had kissed a boy, more than a boy, my cousin was already 20.

    When the three days were up he came to get us. What happens at a retreat stays at the retreat, just let it be said that Gracie and I were even closer than when we got there. He demanded a kiss, a full grown woman kiss, with his hand around our waist pulling us to him. We kissed him because what else were we to do. Now we had been made to make out with him, and his hand had slipped down Gracie's back and across her bottom. Gracie sat up front on the way home, where every time he changed gears he grabbed her thigh and rubbed her.

    He had learned that there was a country store if he took a detour, and we went to the country store for relief, we didn't have to pee on the side of the road. The country store had goodies and he bought what we wanted and Gracie had to stand by him holding his hand so she wouldn't get lost. I was by then very jealous, very, very jealous. I asked him why he was treating Gracie that way. Because he liked her and even if she was still a girl, she would make him a good girlfriend. I pushed on him and told him, in as quiet a voice as I could, that Gracie wasn't free to be his girlfriend. He told me in as quiet a voice as he could, that Gracie's mother didn't want her being like that with me, and she had asked him to see that she became his girlfriend. I kissed Gracie on the mouth to show him.

    In the car, the Wagoneer with the windows cracked and the dust covering us from head to toe, he made us confess to him. We told him that during the retreat we had given ourselves to each other. He listened, stopped the car, and turned to both of us. Gracie was going to marry him, and she was going to have his children. That was already arranged with her parents. She was getting married as soon as she finished high school. Gracie kept quiet with her head in her hands. It was a very quiet return after that, no one spoke, not one word.

    Gracie married my cousin, I was her maid of honor. As it was 'written'. I never married, I spent my life with Gracie and my cousin, the favorite aunt of their children. Fifty years and Gracie and I are of one mind, one soul, maybe too old to play under the covers. But we weren't always too old. What we said to each other on that retreat married us one to the other.

    I Am Still Learning To Embrace My Lesbian Self

    I am one of the kids my mother has with several different men. She is undocumented, and to my knowledge so was my father. For whatever reasons I inherited brains, not so much looks like one of my sisters. In the sixth grade I won a contest put on by the local McDonalds and won a scholarship to St. Mary's School for Good Girls, usually not attended by girls from my neighborhood. Since I was born here I have automatic citizenship, so technically not a Mexican.

    I did well in school without trying, and I graduated with honors and still a virgin. Like I said, I didn't get the looks, my sister got that. I got a scholarship for underprivileged Mexican kids and went to a Catholic College. By the time I graduated I had so much religion I thought I was a Nun or something. I worked during college with the troubled teen programs in my neighborhood, lots of girls got pregnant. That's where I got both a desire to work to prevent pregnancies with young girls, and also to prevent abortions. I thought of myself as a lay Num performing social services.

    I got caught up at a party at my sister's and ended up losing my virginity and getting pregnant. Who he was is still a mystery, but he is not Mexican, he is white. My daughter is pretty fair skinned compared to anyone else in my family. I blew it off, I was never interested in finding the father or having to deal with a man. A friend of mine from college opened a beauty salon and she invited me to live with her. That's where things go out of order. To her living together meant 'living' together in the carnal sense. I admit I got caught unprepared for that.

    I heard over and over of how she had always telegraphed to me that she was in love with me. I didn't get the telegraphs. How she always knew I was in love with her. I don't remember that part. In any event, living with her was 'living' with her and learning to be sexually intimate with her. Whatever I should have learned instead of going to religion, she taught me first hand. Girls do do that, and do do this, and do do it. I admit that it took me several months to get more or less comfortable with 'living' with her like that. I guess my problem is that I liked it.

    Now, which is five years later, I am fully on that side of the street with her. I may not have been the hottie for the boys, but I attracted girls. I've found out that a couple of my best friends in school also 'live' with another girl. And that goes for a couple of friends from college. I seemed to have just gravitated that way. There seems to be quite a few of girls like that. I mean Mexican girls from the hood where I grew up who liked girls. No wonder they made it through school not getting pregnant.

    To get back to my purpose, I work full time with an organization that works with younger girls to avoid getting pregnant. We start talking to them, with their parent's permission, in the sixth and seventh grade. NO SEX is the first method, but in reality that doesn't stop them. So we teach them about birth control, supply condoms, and with their parent's permissions help them afford birth control prescribed by a doctor. If a girl gets pregnant we help her with her pregnancy, and if she is open to the idea, an adoption. If not help her learn to take care of her child. Having a child myself makes it easier to talk with them while teaching them how to nurse properly. (I had help from a nurse at the birthing center).

    Of course the method I use to avoid pregnancy also works, sleep with a girl. But most of the girls I talk to are boy crazy.

    An Unplanned Baby

    Right now I have a few minutes to myself. I have not been able to get horny. I try, but I guess I'm tired. Breastfeeding a new infant. I'm what you might say am a woman who enjoys sex, in the dark, when I'm all alone with my imagination. If I enjoy couple sex, it has always been with another woman. A certain woman, I don't play around and neither does she. We don't want any exchanges of bodily fluids with any other humans. She's a lawyer too, corporate, for another corporation in the same space. Hence the secrecy about it.

    Whose idea was it? The truth is that it wasn't mine. He pushed it on me and used his male assertive attitude and BING, jackpot. He hit center. I'm 38. A lawyer, corporate law. He is more than just one of the guys at work. He's my mentor, and boss. He decided, he told me beforehand, that what I needed was to join the real world and have a baby. He doesn't know about her. He thinks I'm a self centered woman who let the time go by and never got married. So he did me the 'favor'.

    My maturity extends to most everything, I believe I am open minded. Having a clinging infant at my breast isn't my idea of being an independent woman. She outright refused to 'receive' my baby at the birthing center. She walked out, came back in after the baby was born. She didn't want to 'face' my pussy that way. After all that's where she likes to spend her time making love to me. BTW, for those out there who don't understand lesbians, she keeps my pussy neatly trimmed, but not waxed. Now that she can literally see a baby pussy, that's not what she wants. She wants PUSSY, but neatly groomed. I love having her eat my pussy.

    She is just overwhelmed, I don't understand that really, of my milking breasts. She squeezes them, milks them. When the baby is nursing, she sits beside me and squeezes my breasts so the baby has it easier. She loves my breasts, always did. I'm a big breasted woman. If you haven't figured it out by now, she's the butch in the relationship. My coworker, who is the only man who has ever gotten that close to my pussy, thinks of me as some sort of dyke. He doesn't realize that I'm the pussy in the relationship. One day I might let him watch my lover 'fuck' me, so he drops his ideas of helping me out. He thinks I don't get 'any'.

    She and I, it's a joint decision, have decided that we are going to come out to him. He's the baby father, not our choice again having a father in the middle of our relationship, and we have decided we want him involved with his daughter. A girl needs a father, the real father should be the father, not some 'uncle'. As you may have guesses we are both in the closet, as far as work and all but my mother. We are going to break the news to him over a dinner at my place (we have separate living spaces). My plan is for him to arrive first, she arrives second and she kisses me full on, in front of him, and says to me 'honey, I'm home, what's for dinner'.

    Christ Loves Us, He Loves Lesbians, I Know He Does

    Going back to the beginning. From my earliest memories I was bossy, and obstinate. I was corrected, often. I was sent to ballet, I hated it. I was sent to art class. I hated it. I was sent to Cotillion. I hated it. I was sent to religion. I hated it. I was bought a nice dress and shoes, I hated them.

    What I liked never came into the discussion.

    I went to an all girl's school, the kind with Nuns. When I was sixteen I told my parents I wanted to enter a religious order. When I finished high school I went to a place in Florida where I was evaluated for a religious order. After six weeks I was told that I wasn't ready, emotionally to make that commitment. I should go to college, and after maturing a little more, come back and they would reconsider me. I was sent to a Catholic University.

    One afternoon, I was at this other girl's apartment, we were talking about Christ and depiction of Christ in art, and she came over to me and laid her head on my lap and told me that she loved me. She asked if she surprised me. I said yes, really surprised. What did she mean she loved me? She was a girl. Yes she agreed, she was a girl, and a girl can love another girl, they are called lesbians. When you are in love with another girl. And she admitted she was a lesbian and she had been in love with me for a long time.

    She got her phone out and pulled up a video of two girls kissing. See, lesbians. And she kissed me, not a good kiss because I moved my head away. But she got on me, held me down by sitting on me. Now let me kiss you and show you I love you. We are lesbians, when lesbians love each other they kiss. And with that she kissed me. And kissed me and kissed me, and got her hand under my shirt and kept on kissing me. We are lesbians she repeated. I love you she repeated. Please love me back she said. I was crying so I couldn't answer, just shake my head.

    She spent a lot of time analyzing me, my desire to be solely around women by joining an order, never having dated a boy or a man, never having been kissed, only having female friends at college. The only man I ever talked about was Christ. She undressed herself, until she was in her birthday suit, and she undressed me and she showed me how much she loved me, including how much she loved me by kissing me between the legs until I had an orgasm.

    See, she said, you are a lesbian. A LESBIAN. Christ loves lesbians, or he wouldn't have allowed religious orders for Nuns. Not to mention religious orders for men, who love men, who are homosexual.

    I finished college and went on to work for a company recommended to me by faculty and I told myself that I wasn't a lesbian, I was particular, but I loved Christ and I wanted to join a Religious Order. I went back to Florida.

    I confessed my lesbian relationship and that I did love her. They sent me away, this time for real, permanently and told me to love Christ and not be a lesbian. Christ did not approve of homosexuality,

    During the days of haze and darkness I made the simple mistake of not pushing a man away and I became pregnant. I cried and begged her for forgiveness. God works in mysterious ways she told me, and He must have wanted you to bear a child, like Mary bore God's son Jesus.

    But God does not approve of homosexuality and that includes lesbians. Christ does not approve either. Well then she said, why are so many Nuns lesbians and so may Priests gay? You know Father Nolan, he's gay. I have it on authority. It doesn't matter, we are lesbians and we, WE, are having a baby.

    How do you know these things? Because I'm a lesbian, she said. And you are a lesbian. I've know you are a lesbian since you sat down beside me in class. And remember, you picked me out, you came to me, to sit beside me, you instinctively picked a lesbian for your best friend, and PARTNER.

    Christ loves us. I know that. I have always known that. He sent me a partner to walk with me, to have my baby with. A lesbian partner.

    I'm a lesbian. I know that. I've always known that. And we're having a baby.

  • A Different Flower In The Garden

    I'm a lesbian, I have been since my sexual awakening. I've always been in hiding, the only one who knows is my husband, and those girls and women I've 'acted out' with when my base instincts got the better of me.

    My first physical experience was by a maid when I was a little girl. My first emotional attachment was in the 6th grade with a girl in my grade. My first 'love'. I had my first 'adult' physical and emotional expression was in college with a fellow student when I studied in Paris. My first woman to woman affair. It is then that I really understood I am a lesbian.

    Returning to my world, after college, I realized that my family, friends, neighbors, would never accept a lesbian. One example to me was a distant cousin who was ejected not only from the family, the country. Her shame was such that she joined a religious order. I had to keep my secret.

    A cousin I grew up with, male, returned from France after a three year specialization in plastic surgery. He and I grew up together and we were very close as children. He was amazed that I wasn't married. Why I opened up to him, told him, I don't know. I swore him to secrecy, I told him I was sharing with my doctor. He understood immediately, this was something that must never be said.

    He was out of the social network, he had been gone for over twelve years, since he was seventeen. He came to me, marry him, I would be safe then. And he had someone to fill all the social roles of a wife and he would then be left alone by nurses and mothers trying to get their daughters married.

    It was a celebrated wedding, at 24 the relief for my family was everything. For him, everyone understood his cousin was a much better match than some 'nurse' from a no name family. At 27 he told me, nicely, I had to get pregnant. For him, for me, for the extended family, I had to get pregnant. Only then did I really understand what my life was to become. I had four children, quit any attempts of being in my profession. I was behind high walls, protected, motherhood was my outlet for expressing my love.

    My husband, from time to time, had outside lovers. But his deep down desire was for me, not some problem girl. I had to accept him as a husband and he took me as his wife.

    I am fifty this year, I have renewed my friendship with my first true love from lower school. Her marriage failed, her husband abandoned her for a foreign woman. My heart, my love, opened for her. It's platonic, I've resigned myself to it. But my true love is with me.