AdultOrphan

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Gender: Straight Male
Age: 44
Relationship Status : Single
Profile Visits : 808
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About AdultOrphan:

I'm not here to white-knight or simp. Nor am I here on a crusade. I hope I can help people by giving advice, suggestions and opinions. Not everybody will like it. Let intelligence, sanity and common sense prevail, people.

AdultOrphan's Favorite Confessions:

Guess He Changed His Mind

I’ve been going on and off on whether I should confess this here, but tonight I had a couple of classes of wine amd I figured, what the hell.

I used to date this guy, let’s call him Adam. We met when he was 18 and I was 16 and we had three pretty great years together. We did a lot of experimenting sexually and eventually he told me one of his greatest fetishes was for me to suck off and - or get fucked by his dad. Just FYI, his dad was seperated and there was no GF in the picture there.

My first reaction was hesitant, but he would bring it up every now and then, and eventually he talked me into it. Se one night while we were visiting his dad, he ”had a headache” and went to bed, while I stayed back and kept drinking wine with his dad. I kept flirting a bit, touching his arm, laughing at his jokes, etc etc, and before long I was on my knees with my BFs dads cock in my mouth. I didn’t hate it, but also didn’t love it. When I went back to my bf and told him what had happened, he turned me around and fucked me like there was no tomorrow.


After this, he kept pushing me to further amd basically begging me to let his dad fuck me. After a few weeks of this, I finally agreed and one or two nights after that conversation, I was riding his dad on the couch. The result was the same , as soon as I came bach into his room, he fucked my like there was no tomorrow, except this time he started talking to me in a way he hD never done before, calling me a whore, used, a cumdoll, etc etc.


After about a month of this, he dumped me, claiming that Inwas ”used” and that there was no future in someone who was fucking his dad - which caught me by surprise, because it was HIS wish. I ended up coming over to see his dad for about 2 months after that - not because I liked it - I really didn’t, but just to piss off my ex.

Be Careful What You Wish For - Real Wife Swap

My wife and I have talked about swinging and swapping for a few months now. We're both on our second marriage and realized that our love life is a bit boring.

We started chatting with some local couples and just for fun decided to go over to their house for drinks. We had told them we weren't interested in swapping as we were both still undecided but wanted to hang out and thought we do a soft swap to begin with one day soon. That's where we don't really swap eachother wives we just have sex with our own partnerns in the same room. Or so that's how we understood it.

Anyways, we start drinking and one thing leads to another. I vaguely remember my wife putting her elbows on the kitchen counter and the other guy pulling her pants down. I was sitting at the kitchen table while the other wife is rubbing my cock through my shorts.

That's about all I really remember. A few hours later we are ubering home. I check my phone the next morning and the couple had sent us video. There's my wife holding onto the kitchen counter while the guy rails her from behind. The camera pans over to me and I'm pushing the other wifes head down on my cock.

We get some messages and the guy fucked my wife and the woman gave me head. He said I could fuck his wife since I didn't get a chance to fuck her night. I guess we passed out for awhile before waking up and they helped us in an uber.

It's been about a week and my wife and I haven't even talked about it. All she said was that he didn't cum in her because her back and ass was sticky and covered in cum. She also said that she was sore. We'd exchanged nudes and I knew his cock was huge. Like a good 8 inches huge.

Anyways, no idea where to go from here...

open to suggestions.

Violations

I have been raaped 3 times.
I don't know why it happens to me.

The first time I was in high-school. I was drinking under age and I got very drunk at a party and passed out. I passed out as a virgin and woke up on a couch in a basement alone with my panties gone, skirt off, shirt rolled up exposing my boobs, and virginity gone. There was still fluid in my virgina and stains on the couch. I hurt down there bad. I was 15 humiliated and didn't know what to do. I got dressed and took off the back way. I told no one and prayed did not get pregnant. Thankfully I was not. Still I lost my virginity to raape and I don't even know how many guys had me or who watched. It fucked me up all high-school never which on my friends at that party raaped me or knew it happened. I have never forgiven myself for getting that drunk.
The second time it happened was a violent attack so I'll spare you the gross details. I was 19 and it happened in a parking lot at night leaving my job. I was beaten up hard. It was meant to hurt me. He came up behind me while I was putting my key in. It was thankfully fast. He wanted to hurt me as much as fuck me. His face was covered. He first beat me up. I thought he was going to kill me. But when I stopped resisting he bent me over the car and s***mized me and finished inside my butt and just left me like that. I did report this because I needed medical treatment but he was never found.
The last time was last year. It was date r**e. I was dating a guy actually from my office. I wasn't ready for sex but he was. Ibsaid no. He said yes. He later tried to tell me he thought I was playing hard to get or teasing. I clearly and repeatedly said no. I begged his to stop. He pinned me down, over powered me, and fucked me. We were not making love he was pinning me down and fucking me against my will and I was begging him to stop. There is zero chance this was consent. He knew what he was doing and the prick cummed in me. When I told him I was going to the police he said everyone at work knew we where dating and lots of people would back him up. I just didn't want yhe embarrassment so I transferred offices.
So there it is 3 times. I am only 24 and being violated is pretty much normal for me and worse yet its starting to get to the point that I can only orgasm with men when I feel dirty or disrespected. I am fucked up.
Is yhis for life now?

Wifey Is Nothing Like Mom.

I've been married for almost a year to a beautiful wife. We dated abut 6 months before tying the knot. We have an active sex life, same as most newly married couples .The problem is my wife has a hangup about being nude around the house or just being seen nude. She has a great body and at 21, she's a knockout. She changes clothes in the bathroom and even locks the door.

When I was growing up, at age 15 my Mom and I moved into a small apartment after my folks divorced. Seeing my Mom topless or just barely dressed was not an uncommon occurrence under the circumstances. The fact that she also saw me nude in the shower or any number of other times, even when "aroused" was just part of our life.

Once when we were on vacation, we shared a hotel room and after getting quite a sunburn, Mom laid on the bed with a towel over her butt, while I rubbed her down all over with lotion. I loved seeing and touching my Mom's body.

When my wife and I were on a honeymoon cruise, I suggested we go up to the top deck where I discovered many women went topless around the pool. She was freaked out at the very thought of someone seeing her naked. Hell, I remember being out on a pontoon boat with my Mom and my Aunt, they started lying in the sun with their tops unbuttoned and wound-up swimming topless in the lake. Talk about an eyeful.

When we went for a visit at my mom's, she was standing in the bathroom drying her hair with a towel around her waist. I was standing outside the partly open door talking with my Mom, When Wifey walked by, she had a fit and yanked me aside and gave me hell asking me "What the fuck was wrong with me"?

I always enjoyed looking at my Mom's nude body and I'm kinda disappointed that my wife just won't " loosen up" on this nudity thing. Some might say I'm a Mommy's boy, but I'm now a full grown man and have a smokin' hot wife, but she's got a hang up that's disappointing, to say the lest.

Getting My Husband To Go Bi

One of my greatest fantasies is to watch my husband Ken have sex with another man, with my husband in the role of the bottom or the submissive. I've told him this a few times, but he always insists he's completely heterosexual, and has no desire to be with another man sexually in that way or any other. Nevertheless, we have roleplayed that scenario, both during one-on-one sex with each other, and even online with another man during text chats. Every time we've done that, Ken seems to get hugely turned on and the sessions wind up with him fucking me like crazy, so I sometimes doubt his total commitment to heterosexuality.

He's not a prude by any means, We've had sex with other MF couples, both in swapping situations and at swingers' clubs, but during them he always judiciously keeps his distance from the other man.

Now I'm looking for a way to somehow move him past bisexual fantasy to bisexual reality. If anybody has any realistic suggestions as to how to do that, Please let me know.

Lanae

My Little Problem

I ran into some high school friends and acquaintances at a high school football event a couple of weekends ago. In the normal day to day, this all seemed innocent enough. But a little problem arose. My husband of 20 years found out or maybe figured out, that I was exclusively dating (fucking) black guys before I met him. High school, college, after college…yes, it was the truth.

It should not matter right? No, but my husband is literally wanting to divorce me over it. He says I lied to him by not telling him this fact about my dating history. Why should it matter? He contends that I ‘probably have been fucking black men all through our marriage.’ He even asked me why I was friends with black men on social media.

I am so hurt and so distraught over this. I love my husband. I can tell you honestly that I never cheated on him. Did opportunities arise, most certainly they did. But I never cheated.

Was It Planned Behind My Back

I've been feeling confused over the situation so decided to share.
Me and my wife got into an argument recently over a comment I made to her friend one evening and it ended with a threesome so now I feel like I've been played.

We both know her friend has fancied me for a while and this was confirmed when she drunkenly confessed it to my wife but although she is good looking she has no real personality and can actually be quite frustratingly annoying and I can be quite blunt sometimes so when she came around one evening for drinks she started moaning about how guys just use her then leave. I didn't think and said something along the lines of her being like the speed of light and sound she looks good but it takes longer for them to hear her or something to that effect. She didn't get it at first and my wife flipped and it turned into a back and forth leading to her saying she knew if we weren't together I wouldn't think twice about dating her, I pointed out I probably would for a day but was trying to be nice about it so I didn't come across as an asshole.

Anyway my wife and me stopped when we saw her getting upset and we sat either side of her and both apologised and hugged her. My wife mouthed for me to give her a friendly kiss and as I did she lifted her head and kissed me full on and I'm pretty sure my wife gave her a signal to do it. Her friend moved onto my lap at speed and kept kissing me and my wife started kissing her neck as she lifted both of their dresses off and within minutes we were all having sex but my wife was making all about her friend. I questioned it after without sounding like I didn't enjoy because I did and 2 women as well what's not to like about that but I wanted more of my wife.
She hasn't really said anything about it other than they both thought it was amazing and would happily do it again.
So that's why I'm feeling confused and feel it was planned.
Would love to know if others think the same or if I'm missing something.

Wifes Ex Husband Was So Abbusive She Can't Cum Without Violence

My wife and I have been married almost a year now. She was married to her ex husband for a long time. They were high school sweet hearts and had been together since she was 15. It was such a sick relationship and she was just addicted to him no matter how bad he treated her.

When she was 19 the boyfriend let several of his friends run a train on her. She said for an entire weekend they did weed and treated her like a "fuck dolll", her words not mine. Sounds like the relationship had highs and lows like that for years. He would make her suck some dealers dick for him to get some weed. One time he even left her at the dealers house for a few hours and he did all sorts of crazy shit to her.

I think the worst of it came a couple years ago in her late 30s and she had been separated from him for a year. When he finally found her he "r-word" her in a parking lot. The crazy thing is she never even called the police.

Anyways, now we are married and seeing a marriage sex therapist. My wife has been through so much shit that unless I'm violent towards he she can't cum. We are working on safe ways to give her some thrill without things getting dangerous.

Will My Online Print Ever Fade.

I am older and wiser and a mom onf 2 kids now with a baby daddy. But when I was young like 19-23 I did a pile of Webcaming and even tried escorting a bit.
I don't regret it because I had fun and made money but when Google right I noticed pics and vids of me are still out there despite me canceling all my accounts years ago. You have to dig hard to find me but I am worried they will never go away.
I don't want my kids to ever see me like that or be bullied if other find them. There are still nudes of me and clips of me doing sexual acts both with toys and people. There is even an really old ad of me as an escort from years ago when I was 19 and I can't get itubfsssw down because the site seems abandoned.
I am frustrated and honestly embarrassed. What to you think the odds of being found out are?

In Love With My Coworker

I work as a cleaner in a high school, I have been working there off and on for the last few years.

I have a coworker, I don’t know exactly how old she is but I think late 40s, much older than me. She’s also married with kids, most of them now adults and not much younger than me.

I’ve known her for years but in the last few months especially we’ve started talking about our interests more and realised we share a lot in common. Particularly a love of the paranormal.

And the more I’ve gotten to know her, the more I think about her. To the point that sometimes she’s the only thing I’m thinking about. It’s not an obsession, but rather a deep attraction and affection, that kind of unrequited love that feels like it may be shared, but that I am far too worried to act on.

Although we get along really well, there’s every chance that it’s only a friendship connection to her. But when she comes to ask me for something or pulls me aside to discuss something, I can’t help my mind from theorizing that she’s doing it because she wants to see me as much as I wanted to see her.

I’m gonna ask her for her number when I see her again. Casually, the way I’d ask anyone else. But with the slight hope that maybe, just maybe, it could lead to something. Maybe hanging out, maybe doing something together, maybe more.

I’d never want to come between a married couple, but if I had the chance to make her as happy as she deserves to be, I’d do what I could to make that happen. To make her smile.